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Iris6Eyessub female
British Columbia, Canada
Iris6Eyes
Relationship status
Single
About me
*I just signed up and need to carefully select photos until then, hope you enjoy my written words*
PREAMBLE: I am not looking for a virtual dominant, please do not ask me to consider same.
I am a shy, thoughtful, perceptive, compassionate, articulate, intuitive, loyal, honest, humble, attentive, witty, polite, warm, stubborn at times, lover of nature and a genuinely down to earth human being. I have a wolf-hybrid dog and a polydactyl cat. I accept and welcome challenges in my life, they push me to be the best version of myself. I have naturally loose curly blond hair, crystal blue eyes, pale soft skin, a beautiful smile and an average body type (I am a size 6). I do not drink alcohol, do drugs or consume refined sugar (which is just as addicting as drugs and the things it does to your body - I don't have enough time to get into). I have tattoos and they express who I am and what I've been through. A small glipse into my world, my mom chose a man over me and I was kicked out and forced to fend for myself at 13. There are so many ways my life could have turned out but I chose not to be a victim, I put my big girl panties on, got a part-time job, was able to stay at my best friend's house and graduated high school. I am a survivor and no matter the siutation, I will always land on my feet. I have, by choice, remained single and unattached for the past three years in order to determine exactly what I am searching for, whether it be a vanilla or a D/s relationship. Clearly, since I am here, I have determined it is a D/s relationship I seek.
PREAMBLE: I am not looking for a virtual dominant, please do not ask me to consider same.
I am a shy, thoughtful, perceptive, compassionate, articulate, intuitive, loyal, honest, humble, attentive, witty, polite, warm, stubborn at times, lover of nature and a genuinely down to earth human being. I have a wolf-hybrid dog and a polydactyl cat. I accept and welcome challenges in my life, they push me to be the best version of myself. I have naturally loose curly blond hair, crystal blue eyes, pale soft skin, a beautiful smile and an average body type (I am a size 6). I do not drink alcohol, do drugs or consume refined sugar (which is just as addicting as drugs and the things it does to your body - I don't have enough time to get into). I have tattoos and they express who I am and what I've been through. A small glipse into my world, my mom chose a man over me and I was kicked out and forced to fend for myself at 13. There are so many ways my life could have turned out but I chose not to be a victim, I put my big girl panties on, got a part-time job, was able to stay at my best friend's house and graduated high school. I am a survivor and no matter the siutation, I will always land on my feet. I have, by choice, remained single and unattached for the past three years in order to determine exactly what I am searching for, whether it be a vanilla or a D/s relationship. Clearly, since I am here, I have determined it is a D/s relationship I seek.
BDSM and me
I have been drawn to this beautiful, complex and intriguing world for over ten years but I have yet to find the one to submit to. In the beginning, I tried to educate myself and learn why I kept having these dreams/fantasies of submission and why I felt so unfulfilled in my vanilla relationships. I read article after article and even signed up for a few websites that cater to this lifestyle. But I was left with more questions than answers so I sought some guidance. I met and "played" with two men (not at the same time) who both claimed to be teachers of all things BDSM, but they turned out to be liars and fakes. All they really wanted was to get off. They could have cared less what I was interested in and only what I could do for them or should I say to them. I was once again left exactly where I began and even more lost than before. Four years ago, frustrated and annoyed, I walked away and tried the vanilla thing again but my heart and soul yearn for more. Time is such a precious commodity that I would rather spend time with myself than waste it on something meaningless that has no future. So I sadly broke his heart and walked away. It's been over two years and the desire to find the elusive dominant man whom I can completely and unequivocally surrender my body and mind to is always floating around my subconscious. I know he is out there, I just need to find him or hope he finds me.
I have a very strong desire/calling to submit, but I will not submit just to submit. I will not call you Sir or Master or Daddy before I even have a verbal conversation with you. I will delete emails that demand me to do anything or are disrespectful in any way. First and foremost we are adults, converse with me and I will show you the respect you deserve. Come at me like a caveman and I will not give you the time of day. I have received too many emails from males telling me what to do and they do not even know me. I am not your property, you do not own me just because I say I am submissive. I am not some immature, doe-eyed girl coming here after watching some BDSM pretty woman type movie looking for someone to sweep me off my feet. The gift of submission is precious and the submissive is the one to decide who is worthy of receiving such a gift. I want to find the one dominant that can untangle the desires from the depths of my brain like unwinding Christmas lights before putting them on the tree. Are you even out there?
Limits
HARD LIMITS (NON-NEGOTIABLE) - Please do not email me saying I may like it with you. These are my hard limits and nothing you say is going to change my mind-FULL STOP
-Excrement, urine or vomit
-Beastiality
-Pedophilia
-Knife play
-Fire play
-Blood play
-Hypnotism
-Rape play
-Gun play
-Medical play
-Public humiliation
-Face slapping
-Mummification/Hoods
-Suspension from skin
-Branding/Piercing
-Serving as Ashtray
-Serving as Toilet/Urinal
-Serving Others/Swinging/Swapping/Auctioned for Charity
-Sounding/CatheterizatioBathroom Use Control
-Boot/Heel Worship (I'm just not really turned on by it...)
-Chastity Belts
-Exhibitionism
-Spandex/Latex Clothing
-Voyeurism
-Forced weight gain or weight loss
-Drugs
Update date
Dec 29, 2018
Member since
Feb 26, 2018