Bruised Bambi
sub gender queer

Kent, Washington, United States
Age
31
Relationship status
In a polyamorous relationship
About me
I'm a pretty shy individual lol. I am nonbinary (they/them pronouns), ENM (nested), neurodivergent/autistic, and basically just a little weirdo.
I pick up new hobbies and projects near constantly. I love almost all things horror; I know it's blasphemous but I've never cared to watch any of the Friday the 13th films or those Nightmare on Elm Streets. I'd rather watch something spooky or shocking! I love a good sci-fi horror, too.
I'm also a major book worm, and I'm typically reading anywhere from 2-4 books (audiobooks included) at a time.
My idea of a fun outdoor activity is finding somewhere peaceful and near water to have a picnic.
BDSM and me
I'm a submissive. My primary submissive style is being a little and brat, but that's because I crave structure and praise in every aspect of my life. I desperately want to be good and I need reminders on why that is.
I have arrived to live a 24/7 casual lifestyle most of my adult life so far, partners willing. I'd love to discuss hard limits, safewords, and what the lifestyle means to you.

Kink gives me a safe outlet for maybe more harmful stims and a break from my brain. Scenes help me regulate my emotions and keep a balanced life. I am not new to kink, but I am new to realizing just how much of a role it's played in my mental health.
Anything impact is SUCH a need for me.
Being on the spectrum, I have hyposensitivity, meaning I don't process touch the same way as other people.
Impact allows me to lean into that animalist side of humans that require touch and pressure. It also allows me to step outside of my head and simply exist without thought. And thoughtless is the place to be.
Limits
Absolutely nothing permanent; that includes piercings, tattoos, other physical marks, or affects to my mental health and/or records.
Needles really freak me out, so please don't lol.
No scat/vomit/mucus.
NO minors.
And no water boarding? I got asked that recently so I guess I'll slip that in!
Member since
Feb 10, 2025
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