Most Dom’s one completely physically and mentally ripped down their subs and build them back up to what they want there sub to be
I believe that is completely wrong
a Dom is to build their subs confidence in who they are and make them a better person. They are to provide guidance through their life and teach him how to improve and work through stresses in their lives
after a solid relationship and dynamic is built, and the bond is strong and indestructible they can develop the kink side of the relationship, teaching the sub how to please, sir