I am healthy and athletic, a hard worker. I enjoy the outdoors, the arts, good food and healthy living.
I am naturally service oriented: a pleaser. Deferring to authority and taking a supportive role is very comfortable for me in a relationship.
I have some experience in this type of relationship. Pleasing a dominant partner is fulfilling for me. It gives me a sense of purpose, sense of accomplishment and pride in jobs well done. Serving and obeying a woman in charge, the head of household, feels right to me. It makes me feel useful and happy. It is comfortable and natural. This is what I am supposed to be doing. I am a skilled tool user and a good housekeeper.
I don’t really believe that all women are superior to all men. However, I feel right with the world being in relationship with a woman whom I recognize as superior to me. In this way I am a believer in Female Supremacy.
FLR is a good fit for me. The one RL D/s relationship I experienced was quite some time ago. Since then, my experiences have been more like play. I have known women who sometimes "played" at being dominant because they knew that was exciting to me, but not because it pleased themselves. I am hoping to meet and get to know a woman now who is dominant because that is what works for her.
The FLR works when centered on her pleasure, not as a playful attempt to please me. That is my opinion.
I don't see serving a woman as play or an act, but as a lifestyle that allows both people to be themselves in roles that fit their best attributes and bring out their best selves. As stated, I am a hard worker and competent, confident and skilled even. I like to do things that give me a sense of accomplisment, and pride. A strong woman managing the relationship works very well with my skill set, I think.
If the internet, and the resources we have now, existed when I was a younger man, I probably would have appreciated what really worked for me back then and searched for dominant women more specifically and exclusively when dating between relationships. I have never been or felt dominant, but I have been in several traditional, vanilla, relationships and one marriage (now divorced).
I am not a masochist, but I can admit here that I am mentally and physically excited by the idea of serving a woman who has the power and confidence to use physical, corporal punishment or discipline in ways that she chooses. Her choices dictate this. That is the exciting part: surrendering to the fact that she will hold the power. It is her choice and prerogative, not mine, in how she exercises her authority. I don't really want to be whipped but I want to know a woman who is bold enough and confident enough to do that. That kind of strength in women is very attractive to me.
It seems like a submissive should be able and willing to let go, surrendering power and control to the dominant. Therefore limits can be pushed and pulled, expanded with time. I can see where the occasional welts or redness of skin might result. I accept that possibility.
However, I don't want to be seriously injured, cut or burned.
I don't want anything to do with anything like feces.
Experiencing extreme humiliation or degradation does not interest me, especially in public.
I am NOT attracted to age play, diapers or that kind of thing. It is just not for me.
I will NOT participate in activities that harm or humiliate others and especially those unwilling or unaware.