I am healthy and athletic, a hard worker. I enjoy the outdoors, the arts, good food and healthy living.
I am naturally service oriented: a pleaser. Deferring to authority and taking a supportive role is very comfortable for me in a relationship.
I have some experience in this type of relationship. Pleasing a dominant partner is fulfilling for me. It gives me a sense of purpose, sense of accomplishment and pride in jobs well done. Serving and obeying a woman in charge, the head of household, feels right to me. It makes me feel useful and happy. It is comfortable and natural. This is what I am supposed to be doing.
I don’t really believe that all women are superior to all men. However, I feel right with the world being in relationship with a woman whom I recognize as superior to me. In this way I am a believer in Female Supremacy.
I do find pleasure in pleasing others. I do also have some experience in a relationship as a submissive to a dominant woman. The female led kind of relationship seems the best fit for me. I did experience one such relationship, but it was quite some time ago. If the internet, and the resources we have now, existed when I was a younger man, I probably would have appreciated what really worked for me then, and searched for dominant women more specifically and exclusively when dating between relationships. I have never been dominant, but I have been in several traditional, vanilla, relationships and one marriage (now divorced).
I don't need scenes, costumes or roleplay to feel submissive. I don't see serving a woman as play or an act, but as a lifestyle that allows both people to be themselves in roles that fit and emphasize each others best attributes and bring out their best selves. As stated, I am a hard worker and competent, skilled even. I like to do things that give me a sense of accomplisment, and pride even. A strong woman managing the relationship works very well with my skill set, I think.
As atated above, I am a pleaser. I feel comfortable in service to a strong woman. I am not a masochist, but I can admit here that I am mentally and physically excited by the idea of serving a woman who has the power and confidence to use physical, corporal punishment or disciplie in ways that she chooses. That is the exciting part. That is, surrendering to the fact that she will hold the power; it is her choice, not mine how she exercises her authority. I don't really want to be whipped but I want to know a woman who is bold enough and confident enough to use her cane or a whip. That kind of strength in women is very attractive to me. Can I find my purpose serving a woman who has a sadistic streak? Yes, Ma'am, I can.
It seems like a submissive should be able and willing to let go, surrendering power and control to the dominant. Therefore limits can be pushed and pulled, expanded with time.
However, I don't want to be seriously injured. Experiencing extreme humiliation or degradation doesn't interest me, especially in public.
I will not participate in activities that harm or humiliate others and especially those unwilling or unaware.