Saint of Surrender
switch female

New York, New York, United States
Age
27
About me
I’m a passionate, intuitive soul with a rebellious streak and a tender heart. A little chaotic, a little poetic, always authentic. I see the world through a blend of softness and steel—caring deeply, laughing loudly, loving fiercely. I move with intention, and I expect that same depth in return.

I feel things deeply and notice everything. I thrive in connections where curiosity, emotional safety, and mutual respect are non-negotiable. I’m big on communication—verbal, physical, spiritual—and I’m not afraid to dive deep into all of it.

I’m here for something real. Something magnetic. Something that feels like home and electricity at the same time. I’m not here for games—I’m here for something deep, real, and rooted. I move with purpose and intention, and I’m trusting God and my gut every step of the way. I’m a natural switch with a curious, bratty streak and a reverence for the emotional, psychological, and spiritual sides of D/s dynamics. I like my connections layered—soft and soulful, but also unafraid to explore the darker, more intense side of things.

I’m the kind of person who can de-escalate a meltdown with a look, make you laugh in the middle of chaos, and hold space for the parts of you others can’t reach. I’m protective, playful, intuitive, and always down for an adventure—as long as the vibe is right.

I’m not built for the struggle life. I want something luxurious, tender, passionate, and balanced—someone who gets me without trying to shrink me. Someone who can spoil me a little and challenge me a lot. If you’re the real deal, don’t make me wait forever.
BDSM and me
“Softness wrapped in thorns.
Looking for a man who understands how to hold both.”

I’m a switch with a brat streak and a soft center. I give best when I feel safe—when I know you’re grounded enough to lead, protect, and still see me clearly when I get quiet. I want that “I’ve got you” energy, the kind that’s proven in action, not words.

I’m not here for performative Doms, emotionally unavailable men, or part-time lovers. I want the kind of connection that can grow roots and catch fire—devoted, attentive, protective, playful, sensual.

If you read books, cook with your hands, pay attention to details, and know how to take control without taking away my autonomy—I want to hear from you.

If your love language is forehead kisses, aftercare, and acts of war, I’ve probably been dreaming of you.
Limits
Let’s get this out the way—there are some things I’m just not into and never will be. Here’s my list to keep things clear, and if these are dealbreakers for you, that’s cool, but don’t expect me to budge:
• •No pegging. That’s just not my thing. I’m not putting my finger or anything else in that region.
•No scat play or any bodily fluids (pee/poop). Please, don’t ask. It’s a hard limit for me.
•No extreme pain or humiliation. I’m all for some intensity, but I don’t enjoy pain that’s intended for ego-stroking or goes into uncomfortable territory.
•No throw-up play. That’s just a complete no-go for me.
•No jail play, rape play, or any non-consensual scenarios. Consent is key. If I say stop and use a safe word, that’s final. If you don’t respect that, I’ll defend myself however I need to.
•I’m not into high protocol, cuckolding, or any Master/Slave dynamics. I don’t want to be anyone’s property.
•No pet/pony play. I’m more of a cat than a dog. I’ll gladly let you be my dog, but don’t expect me to be yours.
•No mummification, public bondage, or slave training.
•No foot worship. Don’t ask me to touch your feet; it’s just not a thing I’m into.
•No needles, electrosex, or any extreme medical play

I believe in creating an environment where we both feel respected, safe, and turned on—not one where fear or discomfort overrides all the good things that can come from exploring together. So, if you’re into consent-based fun that doesn’t push the line into harmful territory, we’ll get along just fine
Member since
Apr 4, 2025
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