Rewarding Trust
dom male

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United States
Age
57
About me

If she submits to a collar; a cage; a crop; it is because she craves his approval. Longs for his touch. Lives for the next moment of certainty that she is his.

So many come to The Cage filled with curiosity and hope. Desire. They come looking for knowing experience; a companion; answers. None of these come easy. They all require time and trust. Quick constructions can easily be torn down.

You might read this knowing exactly who you want to be or without a clue what direction you feel your life being drawn into. My contribution is instruction. Not a binder of static procedures (although protocol and rituals each have their place). Every path winds to a different destination and no single solution fits every person's needs. I will help you craft yours.

BDSM and me
I have thirty successful years worth of valuable in-person experience to supplement my five additional years of online community building. My personal interests vary from those who are comfortable in their chosen role to others who need an education in lifestyle behavior.

All you really need is an enthusiasm to follow instructions and a sense that life is an adventure when you have an experienced Sir holding your collar.
Limits
Bodily waste is out. No urine or scat. That also includes diapers, water sports, and human toilets.
Blood is out. That includes needles and knife play.
Children and animals ... not going to happen.
Physical abuse? Impact play is fine. If you enjoy getting beaten up, move along.
Narcotics? Won't use them. I want your mind to be present at all times.
What's new

I changed my profile name from "TrueSlaveHaven" to "TrustByExample". My value here has been proven to be sharing lessons from my own life. I am a beacon showcasing how a man can be an unmatchable Sir while at the same time retain his humility in the presence of all others not directly under his care.

Update date
May 25, 2022
Member since
Mar 24, 2018
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