First things first I have left California I am now in the Midwest. I never considered myself in the lifestyle or a dominant for that matter but someone that I was communicating with said I should come to the cage because I am definitely a dominant. You can be the judge. Im 60 so 45 or higher realistically over 50 but happy to chat with anyone.
Short list I'm very much into bondage and the multiple ways to restrain a lady, or suspend, I am fairly practice at rope work, and spanking is pretty much a must don't worry no black and blue marks on your butt but definitely pink and red handprints. If you like being restrained suspended for the ceiling or have rope work done on your body and then a dress thrown over and taken out in public you're my kind of girl. A woman who can write in complete sentences is incredibly sexy. I do not count off for spelling or punctuation because I am a horrible typist. I really don't share well so I would be seeking a monogamous type situation.
Limits no permanent marks, no poop, no non-humans, no sharing of my sub or me inside of a relationship. that should get us started. No age play that would get me on "to catch a predator".
If you think Die Hard is the best Christmas movie ever made we need to talk.