Someone messaged me not too long ago and said that they were looking for someone who "really loves to sub", using the word "sub" as a verb. This was my response to him and I figured it would be good enough for my profile...
"I don't necessarily know if I really want to, especially with the challenge of finding a partner and the other challenges that come with this lifestyle (it's brutal out there), but I know that I really need to. It is who I am and I've known about it since I was a young teenager.
I love/need/crave being submissive to a person who really loves/needs/craves domination."
This is who I am. It's not just something that I do.
Like many others before me, I am looking for that special someone. The key word there being "one". While I respect all the different sexual aspects that people may enjoy, sharing is not for me. I want to be as special to someone as that someone is to me. I want to know that if I'm giving my all to someone, that I'll be important enough to be taken care of. I was told once that I wasn't really submissive because that's "So vanilla to want LOVE!" I don't care. I love the romantic and everyday aspects of a relationship just as much as I love being submissive. I'm a human being who loves to laugh, create art, bake cookies, and dance in the rain.
To the right person, I will give my all. Half of me is not an option.
I'm quite the talkative person. Listen to me half the time and silence me the other half ;)
Age is important to me. I'm not in my 20's anymore and I'm not about that life anymore. I'm not quite in my 60's, so I'm not about that life yet. Please respect that.
"Kinky sex" in the form of talking to someone or playing with someone to help them get their jollies or vice versa is not my thing.
It's been 16 years ladies and gentlemen! Yes. 16 years. It may have been lost as I got caught up in motherhood and life in general, but it was never forgotten. I'm glad to be back! Please be patient with me.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
67% Primal (Prey)
1% Brat tamer
1% Primal (Hunter)
Blood, scat, children, animals, scenes or relationships involving other people (both parties), and anything illegal. Lets keep it safe, sane, and consensual!
Wednesday, April 11, 2018