sub female

Lubbock, Texas, United States
Relationship status
About me








-cautiously optimistic

I love/need/crave being submissive to a person who really loves/needs/craves domination. This is who I am, not just something that I do.  This is what I love. 

Like many others before me, I am searching for that special someone. The key word there being "one". While I respect all the different sexual aspects that people may enjoy, sharing is not for me. I want to be as special to someone as that someone is to me.

I want to know that if I'm giving my all to someone, that I'll be important enough to be taken care of. You want my trust and respect? Trust and respect me, too. This is how to get all of me...without hesitation or reservation. Cherish me and I will give myself freely.

I love the romantic and everyday aspects of a relationship just as much as I love being submissive. Never underestimate the power of a good kiss! I'm a human being who loves to laugh, create art, bake, do general crafty things, etc.  Studying is an odd hobby of mine. Philosophy, Metaphysics, Existentialism... let's chat! - I'm not the ball of sunshine you're looking for. 
I love nature, but not hot Texas summers.

To the right person, I will give my all. Half of me is not an option.  In other words, I'm not interested in your casual play or hookups, your mind games, or your false promises.  I'm a real person with real feelings.

I take this seriously.  Not like serious as a heart attack seriously, but serious.  It means something to me. 

I'm quite the talkative person. Listen to me half the time and silence me the other half ;)  I'm also quite shy at first, so take it slow with me :)

Age is important to me. I'm not in my 20's anymore and I'm not about that life anymore. I'm not quite in my 50's, so I'm not about that life yet. Please respect that.  Seriously.  When getting a message, I know if most of you have actually read my profile or not by this statement alone. 

BDSM and me

Not at all new to the lifestyle, but still learning more each day, and hope to never stop growing.  

I love strictness, compassion, consistency, honesty, genuineness, kindness, and passion, among many MANY other things :) 

My ideal relationship is a 24/7 dynamic - a TPE.  *While I don't mind (and actually prefer) starting out online, if the connection and trust is there, I'd want to move it forward.  I'm not an online type of gal. I'm looking for the real thing! :)

I can be and do enjoy being a great toy to play with. But please remember to pick up your toys. We spend our lives as parents teaching our children to pick up and take care of their things. The same rings true here. If you leave a toy out in the rain or forgotten on the floor to be trampled, that toy will rust or break and won't be any fun to play with anymore.

My BDSM test is fairly accurate, but not complete.  The masochist in me is real and likes to be fed.  There is also a gentle part that likes a Daddy Dom at times...  and everything in between :D  "Rope Bunny" is funny to me because while I do LOVE being bound, I don't like rope so much...

Many people don't like these BDSM tests because they don't want to be defined by them or they feel like they are inconclusive, and that's fine, you do you.  I believe that mine defines THIS SIDE of me quite well and if you don't realize that I'm a multifaceted human being, then we probably aren't going to get along too well. 

== Results from ==
100% Submissive
100% Masochist
100% Degradee
100% Rope bunny
98% Slave
70% Pet
67% Primal (Prey)
53% Experimentalist
45% Voyeur
43% Brat
37% Exhibitionist
17% Vanilla
6% Ageplayer
1% Brat tamer
1% Primal (Hunter)
1% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Dominant
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist
0% Non-monogamist
0% Switch

Blood, scat, children, animals, needles, scenes or relationships involving other people (both parties), married men, women, liars, fakes, and anything illegal. 
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"90% of the world's problems are caused by tiny words that come in pairs.  Not bad, we can't, she won't, I can't, we wouldn't..." 
Update date
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
Member since
Wednesday, April 11, 2018
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