Intellectual Domme, 48, Canada. Straight, but open to interesting dynamics. I like intelligent men but have a fondness for the switchy ones, the kind who want a woman they can’t out-think or outlast. If you’re looking for a 22-year-old cosplay doll in latex with a whip, keep searching. I’m not "performing a fantasy" I'm living the truth.
I don’t bark orders.... you’ll want to impress me without knowing why. You’ll feel it when I pause too long between sentences. If this resonates, you should say hi.
Dominance, to me, is an atmosphere, not a performance. I want your pulse under my palm and your mind wide open. I notice everything. The hesitation before you kneel. The way your voice changes when you're waiting for permission. I'm not cruel, but I am exacting. If that excites you, good.
No roleplay that replicates unprocessed, trauma that you've not integrated. If your kink depends on ignoring your boundaries or testing them “just to see,” we’re not aligned. Respect is the baseline, not the reward.