In a monogamous relationship
A simple "what else are you interested in?" to the guy I was dating several years ago started me on the journey into kink. He stated he sometimes liked to spank pretty girls to which I replied "I just don't see what people get out of that." Those words have come back to haunt me in many inappropriate moments.
The last several years have been filled with self discovery as I delved into power exchange, submission and kink. I am an avid reader of both fiction and informational books and enjoy listening to pod casts with my Dom. Both provide us a springboard to talk about issues in the community and the world.