In reading some of the other profiles the first thing that comes to mind is that I'm not that complicated. We directly and indirectly discover our likes and dislikes and enjoy the play. No matter my outward appearance, I'm always laughing on the inside. I've traveled and experienced too much to have a list of things that I don't like. I was bought up to be respectful and as the oldest male, made responsible for looking after my 3 younger sisters at an early age and so my first impulse is to protect.
My dad would let us know we were exceeding our limits with just a stare and we knew what was coming next. I think I inherited some of that mindset in creating anticipation of whats to come but never in a harsh or demeaning way. Enjoy the lifestyle too much to ever settle for vanilla. Here to share and grow.
Have had several D/s relationships over the past 10 years and totally enjoy the lifestyle. For me chemistry and mindset are important. If you try to force what doesn't fit, it doesn't work. The dynamics of every relationship are different, so that the build up of anticipation in theĀ exploration process can be a catalyst for fun play. Trust allows for the power exchange dynamic, where mind and body are in sync, and there is no better place to be.
For us to decide and agree.