Edit- now getting divorced. And it is now 16 years without sex. I am marred. We have not had sex in nine years. I am a submissive at hart. My wife is not kinky at all. I am looking for a discrete over the top Mistress. I do not know my limited. Other than on other men. You can do to me and with me as you wish. I am new and will need to be Brocken and forced to do things. And if you wish you can lock up my manhood. No one would know it is not like any one but me sees it.
I knew as a child I preferred to be tied up. My religious beliefs teach me that women are stronger and more powerful than men. If not physically in every other way. Wemen have a power men can never dreamed possess. This should always be respected and listen to. With these teachings and my own desires at an early age I came to realize I wanted to be in a subservient position to a woman.
It's not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings. I approached my wife and told her that I was going to seek a sexual gratification somewhere else. Either she could accept this or we would be divorced. We've agreed upon divorce.