I love travelling and walking. I am a good cook and make my own sourdough and fermented vegetables. I love eating, but get frustrated eating out when I feel that I could have done just as good or better job. I sing in a choir and help out with a local women's choir that support each other and charities around cancer. I have been married twice and wife died last year.
I have suppressed my kink side. Over the years I have played with things such as bondage as a sub (ropes, hoods, plaster of paris), breath play (solo, hence wanting someone to keep me safe), mummification, splosh. I have fantasies that I would like to explore such as being buried alive in sand, painted, mud play and other ideas. This has been a side of me always kept secret and was the one that people were happy to take to see friends and family as I am polite, caring and respectful.
My ideal person would be someone is happy to explore my boundaries with, that we can talk and trust each other. Prepared to keep me safe and yet stretch my fantasies.