I’m an adventurer at heart and a friend to all until disrespect is felt. Feel free to message me to chat.
Being submissive to me is about having the capacity to be completely vulnerable with the dom. It needs to be understood that vulnerability takes a great deal of emotional safety with someone, which is built over time. It makes me laugh having men in my DMs immediately asking for pictures or to meet up. What makes you worthy to be dominate if you cannot be attuned to the emotions of your submissive? How are you to be dominate if you have not assessed if your emotional needs will be met by the sub? BDSM is more than a kinky fuck; it’s also about the mind, body, and soul.