PhoenixS
sub male

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United States
Age
19
About me
I am a 19m new to the kinky community. I wanna learn how to get into these things and explore some of my wanted fantasies. But that takes time. I am first looking for people to teach me, guide me, and help me understand the do's and don't's. I am looking for connections to grow into friends and maybe more!! I feel the need, given some of of the attention I'm getting, I am either looking for friendship/mentor men or women..I am straight(kinda) and have no wants to be contacted by men wanting to have sex with me.
BDSM and me
I'm always known I was kinky. Much more than anyone around me. I've been seen as a freak or not normal for it. Of course, I am neurodivergent which research suggests a higher likelihood to be kinky. Before starting to join the websites, I would engage with content that made me feel all tingly inside. Some healthy, some maybe not. All this to say, please be kind, I am new, but I am eager to learn everything I can.
Limits
I don't know them yet, I've had a few vanilla experiences in the outside world, your usual relationship sex. But I always craved more.
Member since
Feb 26, 2026
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