AngryFlowerChild

sub female

You may need more than I can offer you which is okay, but per my husband's preferences and part of our discussion/agreement for my exploration, online-only is all I can offer.

 

I am open to a potential online-only dynamic, but I don't believe in actively hunting for one. When something is right, it fits without forcing it to.

I know my limits and needs are so specific that it isn't easy for the stars to align. I'm also open to simply making more friends.

 

I'm a person beyond my kinks, and being kinky doesn't mean I'm in a rush to collect a bunch of experiences. I'm interested in building something real, not just feeling something sexy (not that there's anything wrong with that...I just need more!)

 

The right person for me, dynamic-wise or friendship-wise, will be someone who also has a rich inner world, mind, and heart...and is creative in their ability to connect without physical touch. I need warmth much more than harshness. I appreciate direction but don't thrive in dynamics that are too high protocol. A person who is enthusiastic and consistent with communication and not easily consumed/burned out by NRE. For me, NRE is not a thing I feel...I tend to become more excited and energized the longer I know a person. I tend to reflect the effort put into me.

 

I'm awkward, so the beginning stages of any relationship is the hardest part for me and causes me the most anxiety as I'm learning and trying to understand expectations and thought processes and communication styles. It can be overwhelming and exhausting. The comfy stage is where I thrive...because then I trust we can do anything from there!

 

Aries/Pisces cusp

Cancer Rising

Gemini Moon

Venus in Taurus

Mars in Capricorn

 

I enjoy music, reading, writing poetry, drawing, knitting crocheting, fantasy, sci-fi, stop motion animation...lots of things, really, in my day-to-day.

 

This likely comes as no surprise on a kink site, but like a lot of people, my path to arousal is not very straightforward. It's a bit of a patchwork quilt of this and that for me to be moved into a dark lust. haha

 

I'm not usually aroused by:

• seeing or sharing random naked genital pictures

• demands of nudes from strangers

• offers of play without deep connection/commitment

• inconsistency

• pressure to meet in person

• pressure to roleplay as a character

• people in a rush to "own" someone

• People who require a lot of "checklists" and "paperwork" as a negotiation-style (no judgement, but I find that confusing).
• Arrogant people.🎵 "I'm humbled by his humble nature."🎵

 

I am exclusively aroused by:

• Enthusiastic and consistent conversations.

• Voices

• Power exchange with intention and emotional connection

• sensory experiences like mild pain, discomfort, and pressure

• mouth and hand pictures/videos (mundane things, not necessarily overtly sexual)

• Vulnerability

• special interest entanglements

• whimsical and fun conversations that flow naturally

• mental and emotional connection