Hello! I use He/They pronouns and I am 19 years old! I am currently figuring my life out in multiple different places and I want to explore more BDSM community things! My last relationship with a dom turned quite scary, so I'm more relearning right now and need gentleness. I have 3 snakes who are my whole and possibly going for an English degree from University, but going in undeclared. I am a trans man, autistic, a stoner, ethel cain freak, and many other things. I like writing fanfic on AO3, coloring, doing workbooks, baking, cooking, and exploring new media!! Even if I can't get BDSM things from chatting, I would be happy coming out with a movie night friend.
I am very much exploring and things might change, but I am fully aware that I am a submissive learning switch and I have a few different subspaces/roleplay things. I prefer being submissive as it feels more natural and fulfilling, but I have been a dom before and will do it every so often with the right person. I am looking for dominants or friends on here though, so not going into my dom side. If you want the BDSMtest results: https://bdsmtest.org/r/T6Fm6VuV
I am a little boy 100% when it comes to ageplay! My little ages range from about a 1 year old to 7 years old. I am a very clingy, cuddly, shy, and loving little overall, but I can be a brat too. I tend to be more bratty when I'm 6 or 7 in little age where I'll stick my tongue out and playfully tell you no or call you silly and maybe give you a bit of a chase. I'm very quiet and sweet though when I'm more little and my usual little age is about 4 years old! I usually do not go to 1 or 2 years old unless I'm in deep subspace. I love cuddles and play fighting with my caregiver along with coloring, little crafts, baking, playing with toys, playing dress up, naps, watching movies/shows, hugging my stuffies, holding babydolls, and doing little kids games. I love finding bugs outside in my overalls or going to zoos to see the animals there or even going to playgrounds! I love the swings! I have pacifiers and like using them along with my sippy cup and baby bottle. Also cute chewy necklace things cause I will bite myself otherwise. I don't do diapers though, that's a limit. I would like a full time caregiver one day where littlespace things is apart of daily life, although to different levels as needed, but that's a long relationship to built. I do enjoy having rules, punishments, and rewards though along with workbooks or homework or mandatory daily coloring page type stuff!! I love being a good boy and being praised always. I am okay with sexual things while I am little (of course with lots of safety talk) along with being spanked or otherwise punished. Some days I need non sexual though and I like my little side being more than sex.
I am into primal play, although I haven't been able to act anything out, and I am a prey animal. I think of my prey submissive side to be like a bunny or baby fawn. I want to explore this more, but haven't yet. I am not into pet play though at all, making that difference clear.
I am into dollification and being a dolly! I know this doesn't come up often in like BDSM archetype quizzes, but it's a subspace thing for me too. I like being a doll who gets dressed up by their owner in whatever the owner wants and gets taken anywhere their owner wants or being a doll for.. other things. I like being pretty and silent and cherished and not having power. I like power dynamics. A lot of my doll thing such as being dressed up also tie into my littlespace things. I see myself as a ball jointed doll or ragdoll. The ball jointed is fully cherished, sophisticated, beautiful, and fragile (that's how I would want to be treated). The ragdoll can be thrown around and used as needed, y'know. I also need to explore this more.
No:
- Bathroom control
- Feces or urine or vomit
- Degradation towards me. I do not like being degraded or humiliated, it makes me legit upset. Now, I will call a partner mean things if it's talked about.
- Eating disorder stuff or body shaming
- Diapers
- Orgasm Denial
- Orgasm control
- Chastity
- Major bloodplay or gunplay
- Somnophilia