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Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
NixxyDreamShade
Age
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About me
Very well then, let's try this a little differently this time.
***IMPORTANT NOTE: I am a lesbian. If you support MAGA I have nothing even remotely polite to say to you.***
Right then.
I have been in and out of the world of kink for a long time, most of my life in fact. Several years ago I hung up the leash to settle down, and for those several years all was well.
Until it wasn't.
I have recently discovered that kink, very much like any other deep seeded or marrow rooted carnal desire, was not so easily dissolved.
Surprise! Turns out that there was still a hollowness I had simply been ignoring, no good.
So, why am I here? Honestly?
I have no fucking idea.
Ideally I want to broaden my social circle to include more from the kink community. I just miss feeling connected.. I think I very much miss being around like-minded people. I think I miss being able to talk about things that matter without fear of judgement or having to pretend I didn't catch the flash of revulsion on someone's face. (Not that I give a fuck about what people think about me, but it is disheartening all the same for people to turn their nose up at the one thing that brings you peace and call it "Disgusting")
All this being said, I have since learned a lot about how my relationship with kink has altered and evolved since the last time I really allowed myself to dive headfirst into it.
Which was many, many years ago.
Things certainly change, so that's been a navigation process to be sure.
For now, I am merely on the lookout for deeply stimulating mental connection.
As a Poet and a desperate lover of words and turn of phrase, I often use a plethora of both simultaneously. If you are unable to return this to me in kind, then this probably won't be a good friendship for you.
I have a sharp tongue and I have recently discovered I do not use it NEARLY enough. I would like to expand my circle with people who are intellectually on my level so that we may verbally spar with one another! What fun! haha.
Some things about myself:
*I am a Poet.ππͺΆ
*I'm an avid reader.π
* I am DEEPLY sapiosexual
*I have my own library. (Yes, I mean that literally. Just shy of 1000. If you know, you know)
*I am a brat to my core and I have been long before I ever even discovered kink. Some things are purely nature.
*I am deeply prideful and detail oriented. I do not like to do things in half measures.
*I am extremely neurodivergent. I WILL pester the ever loving shit out of you with a smile on my face, just before I go in for seconds. This is not negotiable and I couldn't be less obnoxious if I tried.
*I can not remember ANYTHING.
*I enjoy relinquishing control though I do not hand it over easily.
*I am actually most "comfortable" in my everyday life taking the lead on things, and often position myself to a leader role whenever possible. I have a firm philosophy that unless someone is willing to do a task CORRECTLY and AT LEAST AS WELL as I would have done it, then you simply are not qualified to complete said task. Period. I seem to take this stance in my kink as well. Hence, brat.
*I adore the rain. I will never miss sitting outside when it rains.βοΈ
*I'm a preschool teacher.
*Black is my favorite color, as it matches my soul. π€
Important note #2: (The placement of this note was intentional. If that offends you, lol idk go to therapy or something)
Dear Men,
Let me make myself perfectly clear: I am not interested in how much of an "Alpha" you think you are. If you come barreling into my inbox with your misplaced bravado, swinging your virtual dick around thinking you're gonna puff up your feathers and bulldoze your way into someone's space, you are sorely mistaken.
I am not the one.
I will embarrass you with words you probably can't even pronounce.
You'll have to call a timeout just so you can go Google what I actually said to you.
I'd be willing to bet my students could even teach you a thing or two about emotional regulation, for the tantrum several of you would likely throw. π
. Now I'm not saying I won't entertain friendly conversations with men. I've met plenty of intelligent and good hearted men who dont try to bulldoze. Some of you are rather surprisingly charming!
But if you have read this and you struggled with sounding out any of these multi-syllable words? Or your feathers are all ruffled from that very mild verbal lashing?
Well, I must politely show you to the door.
***IMPORTANT NOTE: I am a lesbian. If you support MAGA I have nothing even remotely polite to say to you.***
Right then.
I have been in and out of the world of kink for a long time, most of my life in fact. Several years ago I hung up the leash to settle down, and for those several years all was well.
Until it wasn't.
I have recently discovered that kink, very much like any other deep seeded or marrow rooted carnal desire, was not so easily dissolved.
Surprise! Turns out that there was still a hollowness I had simply been ignoring, no good.
So, why am I here? Honestly?
I have no fucking idea.
Ideally I want to broaden my social circle to include more from the kink community. I just miss feeling connected.. I think I very much miss being around like-minded people. I think I miss being able to talk about things that matter without fear of judgement or having to pretend I didn't catch the flash of revulsion on someone's face. (Not that I give a fuck about what people think about me, but it is disheartening all the same for people to turn their nose up at the one thing that brings you peace and call it "Disgusting")
All this being said, I have since learned a lot about how my relationship with kink has altered and evolved since the last time I really allowed myself to dive headfirst into it.
Which was many, many years ago.
Things certainly change, so that's been a navigation process to be sure.
For now, I am merely on the lookout for deeply stimulating mental connection.
As a Poet and a desperate lover of words and turn of phrase, I often use a plethora of both simultaneously. If you are unable to return this to me in kind, then this probably won't be a good friendship for you.
I have a sharp tongue and I have recently discovered I do not use it NEARLY enough. I would like to expand my circle with people who are intellectually on my level so that we may verbally spar with one another! What fun! haha.
Some things about myself:
*I am a Poet.ππͺΆ
*I'm an avid reader.π
* I am DEEPLY sapiosexual
*I have my own library. (Yes, I mean that literally. Just shy of 1000. If you know, you know)
*I am a brat to my core and I have been long before I ever even discovered kink. Some things are purely nature.
*I am deeply prideful and detail oriented. I do not like to do things in half measures.
*I am extremely neurodivergent. I WILL pester the ever loving shit out of you with a smile on my face, just before I go in for seconds. This is not negotiable and I couldn't be less obnoxious if I tried.
*I can not remember ANYTHING.
*I enjoy relinquishing control though I do not hand it over easily.
*I am actually most "comfortable" in my everyday life taking the lead on things, and often position myself to a leader role whenever possible. I have a firm philosophy that unless someone is willing to do a task CORRECTLY and AT LEAST AS WELL as I would have done it, then you simply are not qualified to complete said task. Period. I seem to take this stance in my kink as well. Hence, brat.
*I adore the rain. I will never miss sitting outside when it rains.βοΈ
*I'm a preschool teacher.
*Black is my favorite color, as it matches my soul. π€
Important note #2: (The placement of this note was intentional. If that offends you, lol idk go to therapy or something)
Dear Men,
Let me make myself perfectly clear: I am not interested in how much of an "Alpha" you think you are. If you come barreling into my inbox with your misplaced bravado, swinging your virtual dick around thinking you're gonna puff up your feathers and bulldoze your way into someone's space, you are sorely mistaken.
I am not the one.
I will embarrass you with words you probably can't even pronounce.
You'll have to call a timeout just so you can go Google what I actually said to you.
I'd be willing to bet my students could even teach you a thing or two about emotional regulation, for the tantrum several of you would likely throw. π
. Now I'm not saying I won't entertain friendly conversations with men. I've met plenty of intelligent and good hearted men who dont try to bulldoze. Some of you are rather surprisingly charming!
But if you have read this and you struggled with sounding out any of these multi-syllable words? Or your feathers are all ruffled from that very mild verbal lashing?
Well, I must politely show you to the door.
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