MissMayhem

sub female

35

Alternative gal, curvy, mother. So yes, I have a “mom bod.” I like reading (I have a mini library), music (sanctuary), writing (I write books 😊), tv/movies, all the good stuff. 

An almost 10 year relationship just ended so not quite sure what I’m here for. I’m not in any rush by any means. I have healing to do, but I enjoy being around and talking to like minded people. I think a true connection is the most important thing.

If you are emotionally stunted, or shit at communicating, please don’t bother talking to me.

*I have lost 30 pounds since the picture of me in a ghostface mask but it’s still a gooder so. It’s up there. Lol*

Once I found this world, I knew I belonged here. I was introduced to the lifestyle at 18 years old - progressed from there. The trust and power exchange in D/s relationships stuns me. It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s beautiful. Always has captivated me, probably always will. Because I’m fresh out of a relationship, I will say my submission is rather out of practice, for lack of a better term. My ex didn’t … get it. Is the best way to put that and so it feathered out and a big part of my life has been gone for a long time, so bear with me 😂

I’m a bratty, masochistic, submissive. *shrugs* I know how to listen, but my personality shines through at times, so bratty is the best label to use. I love intimacy and romance in all forms, I wanna hear about your day and know how you feel, and I genuinely want to connect with you. I lacked that for a long time and it sucks. Mutual obsession, baby 👌🏻

I have a lot of kinks, who doesn’t? But I’m a big fan of CNC, and masks. Idk what it is, but for the love of fuck, please put on a mask and hunt me down 🥵 knife and blood play is another massive one but it takes a lot for me to trust someone to do this. Spanking, being slapped in the face and choking are the things that make my black heart melt. Wax play is also another big one. I love marks and bruises. I love looking at them, I love feeling them, I love the reminder. I’d like to get more into rope bondage as I haven’t done much and it looks powerful and lovely in all the right ways.

Degradation and praise = yes please. Especially if you have a deep voice. Certain voices get under my skin in the best way.

Nothing is hotter than the raw strength in a man’s arms and hands so, those are two things I look at first when I meet someone 😂

No bodily fluids besides spit, cum and blood. No animals, diapers of any of that. No age play. No swapping/loaning/etc. Anal is a soft limit for me.

May 18, 2026