Sargeantfury

United Kingdom
Gender
Male
Age
55
About me
fell into a dom role by the hand of a secret submissive who effectively and paradoxically moulded me. I had a wonderful few years in the role. I have been fallow for a while and decided to explore again perhaps not experienced as some but have enough in my locker.

An aesthete at heart, my interests are wide ranging I’m as happy discussing the impact of Caravaggio on modern realism or the philosophy of Jung as I am the latest marvel release . My passion is music there is nothing more I like doing is playing it or listening to it.
I look after my body I work out regularly and try and eat reasonably healthily, I drink very rarely I don’t mind putters indulging but drunkenness is not a likeable trait for me.

Im looking for connections first and then let’s see, I have no expectations. We all have our own style and I tend toward being friendly and personable, I prefer intellectual connection first if this works then the rest usually falls into place. I h
BDSM and me
In early adult life I enjoyed being bound and submitting in the bedroom but this enjoyment faded finding I preferred to give rather than receive. Eventually my true nature of dominant was. Realised by a wonderful submissive women who effectively helped me. Over the years I have enjoyed Bondage, impact, outdoors, psychological control. As a dom I prefer kindness and nurturing but will punish, I’m not a huge fan of bratty behaviour but don’t mind mild playful resistance.
I am not extreme and don’t like brutality or extreme sadism. I wouldn’t mind trying things out online as this is a good medium for psychological manipulation and control which excites me.
Limits
Illegalities, permanent marks, brutality, humiliation
What's new
Back to explore for a while interested to try things online and see what happens…. looking
Member since
Jul 3, 2026
  Send a message