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Lincolnton, North Carolina, United States
TooDomNice
Age
37
About me
Im a 37 year old man with the humor of a grandfather and the attention span of a elementary school kid. ADHD is a beautiful thing.
In my everyday life, Im a business owner and full time manager. I enjoy my family when I get the chance, but travel a great deal. My wife and I are in an ENM marriage after years of discussions and finding out how we make each other the happiest while coming to terms with the areas in which we can not please the other.
Otherwise, Im a huge nerd who enjoys video games, graphic design, and indepth discussions on what pokemon each Harry Potter character would have and why.
In my everyday life, Im a business owner and full time manager. I enjoy my family when I get the chance, but travel a great deal. My wife and I are in an ENM marriage after years of discussions and finding out how we make each other the happiest while coming to terms with the areas in which we can not please the other.
Otherwise, Im a huge nerd who enjoys video games, graphic design, and indepth discussions on what pokemon each Harry Potter character would have and why.
BDSM and me
Ive been in the lifestyle in some capacity for just over 15 years. In those years, I've been a master, dom, owner, and daddy, as well as a few things in between. I find myself leaning towards soft dom these days, but have a heavy interest in primal play and things along those lines.
The underlying fetish to it all is control for me. I enjoy having it submitted to me, but have recently found I enjoy taking it by force after discussing and setting up the scenario to do so. I also just enjoy being a mentor in the community because of how many bad teachers I had and lessons I had to learn on my own that I dont believe anyone should have to.
Specific kinks along those lines that I enjoy are TPE (Total Power Exchange) control. I enjoy the idea of the deep knowing and understanding of exactly where my sub or slaves pleasure is coming from and in turn, the fact that I can turn it on and off for them. But it also extends to the structure and control of everyday life. I get pleasure from the control and dependence that my sub, slave, or little gives me on even little things like what they eat, when they go the bathroom, and what they wear. Its all about the mental. That's where I get my pleasure.
In the past, that pleasure can also take the form of other things inside the dynamic after being discussed. Things like body writing, humiliation and degradation, or even orgasm denial which have been explored extensively.
The underlying fetish to it all is control for me. I enjoy having it submitted to me, but have recently found I enjoy taking it by force after discussing and setting up the scenario to do so. I also just enjoy being a mentor in the community because of how many bad teachers I had and lessons I had to learn on my own that I dont believe anyone should have to.
Specific kinks along those lines that I enjoy are TPE (Total Power Exchange) control. I enjoy the idea of the deep knowing and understanding of exactly where my sub or slaves pleasure is coming from and in turn, the fact that I can turn it on and off for them. But it also extends to the structure and control of everyday life. I get pleasure from the control and dependence that my sub, slave, or little gives me on even little things like what they eat, when they go the bathroom, and what they wear. Its all about the mental. That's where I get my pleasure.
In the past, that pleasure can also take the form of other things inside the dynamic after being discussed. Things like body writing, humiliation and degradation, or even orgasm denial which have been explored extensively.
Limits
Scat, blood, permanent markings, beastiality, and actual age play.
Member since
Jul 7, 2026