I love chocolates and talking to people.
I've known for years that this lifestyle is what would work for me. It has definitely been a journey, from learning about different kinks and dynamics to figuring out which ones work for me. And to be honest I'm still figuring things out, still trying to understand different aspects of BDSM.
I don't have any experience of being in a dynamic, but I'm definitely looking forward to change that. I'm someone who needs time and patience to open up and see if you are the person I want to submit to. Obedience is not in my list of qualities. If you were to combine, qualities of a brat, a submissive and a little, that should summarise me in a dynamics. Sadly none of these come with a sense of complete obedience. I love asking questions, and testing your patience. (This by no means is an invitation to egoistic men who think they can put me in my place, I'm not an object to polish your ego, don't even try.)