Ben3099

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Gender
Male
About me
Well what to put here?  I guess the best way to describe me is I am a creature of structure.  I believe in bending chaos to uniformity to find my sense of self.  How does this apply to my day to day you might ask?  I work as an professional problem solver as my day job, I develop routines to ensure things get done, and follow strict rules to keep myself focused.  This allows me the ability to have an unwavering moral sense as well as an unbreakable dedication and drive to all things I do.  

Despite this, I can be a very caring and gentle soul.  I am willing to move mountains for those I care about and go above and beyond to ensure their happiness.  I also love to joke, laugh, play, and talk about everything and nothing at all for hours on end.  If trust is present, I will go on adventures big and small and share news of our exploits to those to afraid to venture into the unknown wilds.  I will be your partner in crime and will see what hilarity and trouble we can get into if given half the chance.

Other interesting things about me:

- Enjoy fantasy, science fiction, gaming, and animation (on both sides of the pond).

- I enjoy a great story.  I am not the most well read person, but I will always take time to share a great story. 

- Intelligence is incredibly important.  This does not mean simply acquiring knowledge, but rather the ability to think, reason, rationalize, and learn.  I am more impressed with a person that can build a working engine out of Legos than a PHD in astrophysics that can't put on a spare tire.

- I continue to strive to improve myself whenever I can.  This can range from lifting weights and running to working side gigs for extra cash to learning and experiencing new ideas and ways of doing things. 

- I love fuzzies, especially dogs and cats.



 
BDSM and me
I see myself as a soft or daddy Dom for the most part.  I am looking for something akin to mentoring up to full power exchange.  I am adaptable to caring for littles and brats to pet play with a cute puppers or kitten up to full control/instruction of a willing sub/slave.  When in a dynamic, I want a complete monogamous relationship, which means I am dedicated to only one sub.  Also when in a dynamic, I whole heartily believe that the sub in the relationship gives power to another, which means that I am willing to listen and respect my submissive's desires and limits as well as have open discussion about the direction our dynamic.

 Contact me further about my kinks and desires.
Limits
My hard limits are vore, permanent physical pain or scaring, scat.
What's new
Nothing with me, how about you?
Update date
May 3, 2022
Member since
May 25, 2018
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