Van Dame
dom male

United States
Age
36
About me
I’m actually 28, not 36 or whatever it says on my page.

Interest:
- Reading
- Gym
- Golf
- movies
- shows
- nature/hiking
- many more
BDSM and me
New to this whole scene on this level but have had various BDSM dynamics naturally due to my personality I guess? Was referred to this site from a friend and now I’m just exploring and seeing what’s out there.

From reviewing the roles I align most with being a dominant male. Some qualities branch off into other things like a master and brat tamer but dom male would be the main. I have various interests in thing like role play , spanking, ropes, and probably others. Main thing is I want to be able to communicate and connect with someone and am open to setting the scene together with someone. We both need to be comfortable and set boundries to really let loose. I will say if there is a space created for me to take control I will and make my power known. Discipline and care all in one.

Monogamy is imortant to me as well.
Limits
Nothing illegal or dangerous. Theres no way to tell we would just have to talk and figure things out.
Member since
Aug 9, 2026
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