I am Dominant male 40s 5'9 170 lbs
I have been in the lifestyle a few years but no expert. I am more gorean than BDSM but that's not a disqualifying factor if you are not. I've been in both lifestyles and a few local events. I have toys restraining bars ECT.
I am a Gorean master started online 15 years ago and progressed into physical. I do own a slave however in another state sometimes visiting, and wanting someone local we have no secrets and neater tolerate jealousy. I am on FetLife I am strict but fair and will work with the right person
I Require someone serious about being owned and loyal, dedicated 24/7 if it's right . I do have a sadistic side too I like to humiliate and leave bruises with the right person.
Trust is hard for me I've been burned a few times, and it takes time. Would train the right one if she is serious. I am fair flexible but stern in my ways I'm not in it as a stepping stone to train you then you leave. I'm flexible to a point.
Scat, piss will discuss others if they come up.
Would like to start online kik, Skype,second life ect..see where it goes hopefully progress into physical meeting.