Well not quite sure what to write here...guess to start off I am 51 years old, single, well educated business woman looking to lose some inhibitions. In my work life I'm the one in control; however, in the bedroom I would like to explore the submissive side of me with a std free dominant man of similar age, who is white, single, local to NJ and has gentle patience to guide a novice in her exploration. Nothing to outrageous or degrading but explore in a safe, respectful environment that takes me outside my comfort zone and that brings mutual pleasure.
Degradation, extreme or abusive situations that could lead to harmful or permanent damage, no branding, no cutting, no untrained Dom who doesn't understand the dynamics of the D/s relationship. No married Doms. No drugs or other illegal activities.