curiouskittyy​{Not lookin}
sub female

England, United Kingdom
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About me

I live in Essex, UK (near London) and I am a well-educated, professional and ambitious girl. I love wit, sarcasm, intellectual conversations and a great sense of humour. I can be playful and sweet but I am definitely not a human door mat, and can have one hell of an attitude if certain situations arise. I also love to travel to new and exciting places as much as possible, and generally get as much out of life that I can. 

I am new to the BDSM community with very little experience, but what I lack in experience I make up for in attitude and enthusiasm. 

I am not actively looking for a long-term D/s relationship but rather experience to explore my submissive nature.  Ideally, I’d like to meet an experienced Dom or couple to explore this side of me more. However, I am not interested in joining an existing relationship. I, personally, am unable to connect emotionally with more than one person at a time and am currently only interested in males romantically. Saying that, I do think that there has to be good chemistry, friendship and trust, with clear boundaries established. 

***Although, if I do happen to meet a Dom that i make a connection with, then I wouldn't rule out a long-term relationship. I’m just not actively seeking it***
BDSM and me
According to my friends i am confident and sassy, but fussy when it comes to relationships. However, I do not consider myself to be “fussy” I have just been unable to find what it is that I truly desire.

I have always been subservient during sexual encounters. I generally enjoy my partner taking the lead and have enjoyed forms of bondage, rough play and spankings in the past. But I want more than this. I want to be able to give over my control to a dominant partner I trust - and feel cherished whilst doing so. This is what I crave more then anything else. Although it doesn’t necessarily mean I want a 24/7 D/s relationship, i would just like to explore the option.

I am open to online D/s whilst learning or establishing a connection but I would like something in real life, so please keep my location in mind if distance bothers you. I am in no rush to find what I’m looking for and am willing to learn as much as I can in the meantime, so feel free to message me with any tips or if you wish to discuss experiences etc.

Things that appeal to me: bondage, (particularly rope), sensory deprivation, ice and wax play, clamps, impact play (flogging, spanking etc), rough play, power exchange, orgasm control/denial, edging, anal etc
I am not interested in: age-play, scat, permanent markings, body modifications, animals or illegal activities. Other than that I’m pretty open and happy to try most things.

Please do not contact me if you are looking for a “discreet” relationship, I have pretty strong opinions regarding those who go behind their partners back and I will not respond
What's new
Had a go at the Meyers-Briggs personality test. For those of you who follow it, mine came out as INFJ (Advocate). Although i must admit that its flattering being told that my personality is comparable to Mother Teresa...i dont put to much faith into these tests.

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Friday, October 12, 2018
Member since
Wednesday, July 18, 2018
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