sub female

England, United Kingdom
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About me
I live in Essex, UK (near London) and I am a well-educated, professional and ambitious girl. I love wit, sarcasm, intellectual conversations and a great sense of humour. I can be playful and sweet but I am definitely not a human door mat, and can have one hell of an attitude if certain situations arise. I also love to travel to new and exciting places as much as possible, and generally get as much out of life that I can. 

I am new to the BDSM community with very little experience, but what I lack in experience I make up for in attitude and enthusiasm. 

I am not actively looking for a long-term D/s relationship but experience to explore my submissive nature. What I would ideally like is to meet an experienced Dom or couple (Dom Male - Domme/Sub female) to explore this side of me more. However, I am not interested in joining an existing relationship as part of any triad. I, personally, am unable to connect emotionally with more than one person at a time and am only interested in males romantically. Saying that, I do think that there has to be good chemistry, friendship and trust, with clear boundaries established. 

(Although, if I did so happen to meet the PERFECT Dom for me then I wouldn’t rule out a long-term relationship, I’m just not actively seeking it)
BDSM and me
According to my friends i am confident and sassy, but fussy when it comes to relationships. However, I do not consider myself to be “fussy” I have just been unable to find what it is that I truly desire. I have always been subservient during sexual encounters. I enjoy my partner taking the lead and have enjoyed bondage, rough play and spankings incorporated in the past. But I want more than this. I want to be able to surrender completely and give up my control to a dominant partner I trust - and feel cherished whilst doing so. This is what I crave more then anything else. Although it doesn’t necessarily mean I want a 24/7 D/s relationship. I understand that due to my lack of experience I may not appeal to many Doms out there, but for those who are willing to teach, I am willing to learn. 

I am open to online D/s whilst training/learning or establishing a connection but I want something in real life so please keep in mind my location. I am in no rush to find what I’m looking for and am willing to learn as much as I can in the meantime, so feel free to message me with any tips or if you wish to discuss experiences etc. 

Things that appeal to me: 

bondage, impact play (flogging, spanking etc) pet-play, rough play, power exchange, orgasm control/denial, edging, anal etc
Please do not contact me if you are looking for a “discreet” relationship, I have pretty strong opinions regarding those who go behind their partners back and I will not respond. 

I am also not interested in age-play, scat, urine, permanent markings, body modifications, animals or illegal activities. Other than that I’m pretty open and happy to try most things.
What's new
Updated my profile to better reflect myself
Update date
Thursday, August 9, 2018
Member since
Wednesday, July 18, 2018
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