GandolphThe8

dom male

61

Single

I have a business background and also have traveled all over the world.  I enjoy camping, kayaking, hiking, and reading. A student of life ever learning. I am an INTJ personality type.

I am a Dominant man with the heart of a teacher. I believe only in safe, sane, and consensual play and exploration (SSC, and RACK), and encourage young or inexperienced subs to approach every situation with caution and wisdom. If someone messages you and demands that you call them master after a few messages, you can rest assured that some dumb ass kid has hacked the computer lab at a Jr. High somewhere, and you are the lucky recipient of his "dominance" lol!

It takes time to develop the true trust and communication required to know someone well enough to literally place your life in their hands.

I am talented at rope bondage, spanking, edging, and am passionate about device bondage. I dream of having my own fully equipped dungeon someday, built just for my babygirl.

It is a common misconception that being a Dom is a convenient excuse for acting like an asshole towards those under your control.  I believe that a true Dominant does not need to prove he's a bad ass or in control of anything or anyone, but if he has no SELF control he is not worthy of the trust required for genuine power exchange. My journey as a dom has been a journey of self improvement. No one knows everything, and the most dangerous "dom" is an arrogant one IMHO.

I believe that the greatest gift another can give is the choice to submit their will to you, and it is my belief that this should be rewarded.  This has always been my practice, and even though I am nice, that doesn't mean I am not firm.  I tame brats with both hands tied behind (their) backs :-P. My rules for relationship are pretty simple. I believe in mutual respect and honesty, beacuse it doesn't take long to realize when you are in a one way dynamic. I refuse to tolerate manipulation or those who excuse a track record of manipulative or blaming behavior.  We ALL need to own our shit and realize other people are not a dumping ground for our issues.

No illegal or non consensual activities.

Mar 28, 2020

Jan 9, 2017