TigerBDSM​{looking}

dom male

 

The highlights
I'm a multifaceted dom. Mental dominance is my forte, taking the time to learn what inspires your mind. Doing so your body will obediently follow. I'm also a Daddy Dom (but only if you seek that), skilled sadist (but only if you are a masochist), spanker, rigger (want to increase my suspension ability), alpha, gentleman, polite and a VERY HAPPY man. I have a forever youthful mindset and a sexual libido to match. Please understand that the lifestyle is not a sexual kink for me, I'm just stating that underneath the umbrella of domination is my high sex drive. You will not see me talk about sex in my profile or comments on my pictures. Bringing up sex so you know that is is also an intragal part of my life and not mention elsewhere in my profile.

 

The basics
Living the lifestyle is who I am, sharing my expertise with females who seek that is what I do (ideally for a lifetime). Predicated on how we connect you will encounter a myriad of activities that I do in this tremendous BDSM lifestyle. All the photographs in my profile are my original content and from my daily life with either former live in slaves or visiting slaves. It will give you an idea of some of the activities I do, and the type of female that is attracted to me. You will experience various levels of what the BDSM lifestyle has to offer and (in no particular order) protocols, rules, expectations, accountabilities, discipline, encouragement, motivation, punishment, structure, and goals.

 

My success in the lifestyle
I believe it's based on me learning everything about you. Then properly designing and implementing the best path for us that we can ascertain and live. Doing so to ensure fulfillment, and an overall healthy and happy life. The benefit I offer is involing you in the lifestyle at a deep level, with you knowing you are not my starter sub. View me as YOUR life coach, but in the world of BDSM. Yes, anyone can say what I said, the DIFFERENCE with me is I'VE LIVED IT IN REAL LIFE and I'm tougher to me than I ever will be to you. I'm very focused and driven and have for over 4 decades. This is not wishful thinking or hopes and dreams, it IS MY LIFE. To say what a previous business partner said to me as a young entrepreneur, to be with the big dogs, you NEED to be a big dog also. Most just talk like a big dog, I live it. The fine line of cockiness and confidence. You say this, wow an alpha male who is an accomplished MASTER or who the f*** does he think he is...to both I say thank you! Those who understand me will, and together we will grow and enjoy our life.

It began with me and my sister roping (I'm half Japanese, rope is in my DNA) our babysitter when I was 5-6 years old (she must have been a rope bunny). Then roping girlfriends arms behind their backs in my teens with their pantyhose. My domination and control of a female began early in my life and NEVER has stopped. From my youth to now I'm constantly searching for better ways, methods, and tools to enhance my skills .Im not perfect, I strive to be the best possible i can be in all my activities. I do that for myself and you.

Main and indepth profile (some redundancy)

I'm  dominant male with 4+ decades  of verifiable experience. 24 years of at least one live in slave, 9 years live in poly and the balance of my life with guests visiting. The lifestyle is NOT A FANTASY FOR ME, nor some casual kinky sex game. It IS my life. What that means to you is, I know what I'm talking about, from real life experiences and not lies, dreams, theory or wishful thinking. Please embrace my knowledge and experiences and allow me to share. To fully dominate someone, you must also offer yourself and take care of their needs.I will always lead, and show you I appreciate everything that you offer, yet will still be in total control. I will be constantly learning about you. Being a dom does not make me a rude, overly assertive, alpha idiot. It does make me a man in charge of my life however and if we mesh, yours also to various degrees, predicated on your involvement in the lifestyle. I live a seamless life between the vanilla world which we all must live in and the BDSM world that I have crafted for myself and those who have chosen to be in my life. If you need a take charge dominant male who is always in control and command of himself first, then others (who seek and need that), we need to talk and meet.

 

Depending on why we connect, some or all of this profile will pertain to you. Though I will interact with most, this profile is addressed to those who are looking for LTR and not just kinky sex or casual BDSM. However I enjoy females at any level in the lifestyle. So even if you are not interested in the lifestyle at my level, I do activities at any level.

 

The rest of my profile is focused on a LTR. Your level of experience is not important to me (many new people contact me, to inquire or see how their interests in the lifestyle work in their life), your PASSION IS. A basic (non fantasy or theory) understanding of the lifestyle is a MUST if you want to continue with me. Just be sincere and authentic and no need to lie about your past bdsm life. I will take you from there and develop you into what your dreams are made of, as I have others. I'm seeking (and fortunately get) a female who has a need to be deeply in the lifestyle (but as mentioned, lower levels of the lifestyle can occur). I will progress with you as you understand more about yourself and how it pertains to the lifestyle. If you think that means you will be carelessly abused and my doormat, you are wrong. You will not only be managed by me, but also cared for and always feel wanted. Again, as mentioned, I do expect you to have a need of what it is like to be completely involved in BDSM, in real life (as much as possible, yet living and functioning in the vanilla world) not the fantasy or theory of it. Your development will not happen overnight, I'm in no rush. I have a specific process to get the most out of you. Constantly learning how you think and react to the basics and advanced aspects of BDSM. TO BE BLUNT, REAL TRAINING AND LIFE IN THE LIFESTYLE FROM SOMEONE WHO LIVES IT, I'm not pretending to be in it or playing kinky games (off soapbox now). As you can read and see in my many pictures from my life, the BDSM lifestyle is no fantasy, kinky sex or part-time event for me. I live it! This is my reality and it needs to be yours also.

 

I will do as I please with you (as more and more control is relinquished from you AND you seek that from me). However I'm never careless, angered or out of control. I will take what I desire from you and make you want to obey. I do so because of my lifelong need to dominate and by tapping into your need to serve and be controlled. You and I are on this site for a reason, and when you finally connect with someone on the same journey as you, than all the enlightment of the lifestyle can be yours! HOPEFULLY OURS.

 

My skills in this lifestyle have been polished, refined, studied and practiced over many decades. I will enhance your mind and soul to want to follow my lead and submit totally. Your limits to be dominated and used by me will be expanded and constantly tested.

 

Though you will find me a very enthusiastic man who loves to laugh and be cheerful, I have dominant and alpha personality all the time, and everywhere to those whom I control. This is not something I have to think about and turn on, it is who I am always. I lead and expect you (after a connection is established) to obey and follow, something WE BOTH WANT. I'm very strict, structured and consistent in my actions and needs.

 

What I am looking for, in no order

●You are already happy inside, but need a strong DOM MALE to enforce and maintain structure and discipline to feel complete, fulfilled and wanted. NOBODY can take you from a sad person to the happiest property on earth.

●You need the comfort that only being tightly bound and gagged can provide. Through bondage you feel totally controlled and free.

●You need the closeness and submission that only OTK(over the knee) can accomplish.

●You need a Dom who is capable of exploring your mind, body, and soul and controlling it. You embrace and need the TPE (total power exchange) that only mental and physical domination can achieve.

●You need a Dom who you will never be able to "top from the bottom"!

●You understand the dynamic that a DOM MALE LEADS and you MUST FOLLOW. Decisions are made for you not by you.

●You have time for this to develop as I am very picky and know what I need totally from you and am willing to wait to find a true match for my life.

●You are looking to become part of a very structured life, managed by a Dom who has knowledge on what does and does not work in this lifestyle (I am not perfect I have made my mistakes and have learned from them).

●You need the POWER of a STRONG MIND AND SOUL THAT WILL TAKE YOU COMPLETELY, YET NOT CARELESSLY.

●You understand that I say the above from years of experience and constant learning with face to face slaves/property. This is no role-play or fantasy for me or you.

●You must make me feel comfortable in any environment, at my work, public or social events.

●You understand 24/7/365 in this lifestyle is not all whips and chains and bondage, as it is in weekend play, parties or videos. The BDSM life provides a very controlled and structured foundation, sometimes in the forefront, sometimes not, but always there in your soul and mind.

●You understand that initial training is just that, do not get caught up in it. It is the smallest part of a long relationship. Learning and expanding your abilities and limits will be life long however.

●YOU KNOW YOUR PLACE AND EXPECT TO BE TREATED AS SUCH, you are a slave and need to be treated that way always. This is something that you simply can't turn on or off, nor can I. You live to serve and obey.

●IF you have got this far, your most vital trait is, YOU NEED A DOM WHO IS IN CONTROL OF HIMSELF FIRST, otherwise how can he ever control you?!

 

Where is the one to complete my/our journey? I am looking to finish what I started long ago, will it be you?

 

It is ok for you to take the first step and contact me. Be warned however if you are contacting me first to see if we click, be prepared to offer proof of who you are. This will be via verifiable pics and or web cam and phone calls (when comfortable calling) within the first few contacts. I've done that for you, the least you can do is do the same for me. My friends call me Tiger (my nickname since birth), and unless instructed otherwise do so as well. If in my control the default is always Sir.

 

IF we are a match I will take the lead after a connection and verification has been made. I will ALWAYS be polite but assertive AND NEVER rude. Saying that so you are cognizant that I will not have a "drop you to your knees" attitude at first (and ONLY IF AND WHEN that atmosphere develops) and dominate you in the initial conversations. I can and will become that and more, predicated on our relationship, on a permanent basis when the environment dictates such, but not until then.

 

One last note, I am flattered by those who appreciate who I am and take the time to pm me first. Doing so does not imply yiou are requesting ownership, it just shows potential interest in some form.

 

Be well and enjoy as much of the lifestyle that you can incorporate into your life.

 

Tiger