**This is going to be a quite lengthy but it is important that you read this entire post--I will know if you have not.**
When it comes to the Dominant/submissive life, and how I operate within, I do not correlate it with BDSM, sex, and kink. I am not here to cater to anyone's fetishes, kinks, and sexual fantasies. Rather, I seek a purely Dominant/submissive 24/7 online dynamic.
I understand that this is going to be a long shot given the prevalence of such correlations; however, I know what I am looking for, and I know that there is a plus-sized submissive man out there who understands, who is ready to live their life in service and obedience because they know damn well they NEED it. Therefore:
With 10+ years of online experience, I am a Man with a Natural Dominant Nature looking for that ONE obedient plus-sized man who possesses a strong, natural need to serve for the sake of service, not sex--all just as real as if it occurred in person. It is best you reside in a time zone close to Central Standard Time.
Keep in mind: submissive = fully inclined and truly willing to submit to the will and authority of another.
Synonyms - docile, malleable, conformable, compliant, and OBEDIENT.
Other important keywords - receptive, loyal, committed, reliable...and OBEDIENT.
**ABOUT ME**
- I am a control freak--what I say goes!
- I operate contrary to mainstream practices and terminology.
- This is not just some "role" or "scene" and I am not here to "play".
- I am not a top seeking a bottom; I am not a daddy seeking a son.
- I do not seek anyone who gives themselves a persona like an it, a slut, a boi, and so on.
- I am not looking for a horny man; I seek an obedient plus-sized submissive man.
- I do not incorporate chastity devices or "toys".
- I am not aggressive, but assertive. I am not abusive, but adamant. I do not humiliate; I teach humility.
- The only "Give and take" will be me giving the directives and you taking them.
**Section I - IMPORTANT REQUIREMENTS**
You must match EVERY SINGLE ONE; I am very choosy as I seek a long-term arrangement, so I do not intend to make exceptions, even if you match all but ONE of the below:
1. You must ALREADY be visibly plus-sized (to be blunt, FAT)! 240 pounds is a good start, but around 300 pounds and up is an even better start! If you have double chins and a round, plump face, you are on the right track! **If you are in the process of losing weight, please do not approach.**
*It is not important that you resemble any of the following men, even if it would be a bonus, but this will provide an idea as to how you should appear weight-wise: A Wayne Knight-type, A Michael Badalucco-type, a James Gandolfini-type, a Jason Alexander-type, a John Candy-type, a Kevin James-type, a 90s John Goodman-type, a Chris Farley-type.*
2. Be single AND live alone in your own home; do not approach if you are living with others, even if you have your own room/space and even if you are planning to move out in the future. **Do NOT approach if you have a busy day-to-day schedule! Ample availability is required! You need to be at my beck and call!**
3. You must own business/office attire--regardless of whether you normally wear such attire or not, it will become your day-to-day wear. If you do not already own this attire, waiting for you to purchase it is not an option. **If you have a selfish issue with wearing this sort of attire during warm climates and temperatures, do NOT approach!**
4. Be clean-shaven (no facial hair). Not willing to shave? Walk on by.
5. Have a webcam and a microphone, ideally a smart device.
**Section II - WHAT I SEEK IN A CHUBBY SUBMISSIVE**
- Match ALL of Section I! - Your subservience is inherent and natural--it does not “turn off”, “switch”, nor come from a situational “sub-space”.
- You realize that your place and your purpose is to serve in any way, shape, and form to ensure MY happiness.
- Be SELFLESS and not SELFISH!! Leave your assumptions and expectations, as well as preferences and routines, not just at the door but even farther away! For instance, do not tell me about your kinks or your fetishes because they will not be catered to!
- Related to the above, you are one who is a blank slate, and does not expect me to follow along to what is already "written".
- You realize that you must serve through all sorts of conditions: hot or cold, sick or well, tired or refreshed, and so on.
- You understand that just performing any act of service--big or small--is a reward in itself.
- Be eager, be committed, and be humble!
- You realize you are here for ME and not yourself.
- Do. Not. Waste. My. Time.
In short: You are here to obey and learn how to serve ME--Just do as you're told, and we will get along fine.
**Section III - WHAT TO EXPECT**
Through IM, Email, and Webcam, with each passing day, you will have your routines, behavior, appearance...whatever else I prefer...shaped through detail-oriented, micromanaging Online Training & Total Life Control--MY Way. You will have the security of being able to provide service according to me, each and every day! Understand that happens between us, STAYS between us; whatever information I receive (however personal) will be for MY eyes and ears only! Even though I intend to grow a bond between us, this will NOT be egalitarian! As well, what happens and what will not happen will be according to me. I am not here to negotiate with anybody and change any expectations.
**Section IV - WHEN CONTACTING ME**
I would rather you message ME first--This is your chance to advertise yourself to me! Impress me from the first message! Here's how:
**You should explain how you match ALL of Section I, as well as explain how you believe you are the one to serve me. You must describe the business attire and footwear you currently own. If I have to ask 20 questions to receive that information, that is already not a good look. But I must remind you, if you do not indicate that you match what I seek in a submissive as well ALL of Section I (most likely, because you do not), our time will only be wasted. If you tell me about your kinks or fetishes, you have not been paying attention to this post!**
When you approach, it should be not because you are just "curious" and just "want to see what it is like"--I cannot stand the whole wishy-washy thing--it should be because you realize you are truly serious, and realize you are who I'm looking for--you should be genuinely ready to serve ME! If you are going to approach me with your own hidden ulterior motives, while waxing poetic about how you are the one to serve me, go ahead and stay away.
If you must send me any photos, I will not accept nude photos or the like. Take the time to get dressed in business attire and footwear and send me a **Head-to-toe** photo of yourself--yes, including your **uncovered face**. Make sure to smile!
I do not like to ignore people's messages, but if you send me a low-effort message such as just "Hello" or "Hi", or something irrelevant, I will decide not to reply. This also goes for comments in which you request that I send you a direct message.