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Remote Controller Mdom male
Chicago, Illinois, United States
Remote Controller M
Age
36
Relationship status
Single
About me
**This is only for those serious about a long-lasting commitment, and active participation while in service to me. Potential candidates must carefully read this post in its entirety before contacting me. Read this twice, if need be.**
I am an experienced online Dominant (or Remote Controller) who currently has a 24/7 position open for a plus-sized man with a strong will to serve, please, and learn--all while being right at my fingertips through exclusively online communication (yes, it is just as real as in-person). **Please note that due to the nature of a 24/7 dynamic, your time zone should not be too far ahead or behind the Central time zone. If it is morning for you when it is night for me, and vice versa, that will not work.**
Also realize that this is *not* going to focus on sex, kink or be a BDSM-centric dynamic. There will be no "toys" or chastity belts involved.
This will not be egalitarian (meaning we are not equals) so the only "Give and take" will be me giving the instructions and directives and you taking them. **This is about ME, after all!**
**Section I - IMPORTANT REQUIREMENTS** *These are NOT suggestions; I am unwilling to make exceptions for those who miss even just ONE of these.*
**1.** You must ALREADY be plump/heavyset starting at 240-250lbs and upward; *if you appear blatantly "fat" with a plump face and even double chins,* you are on the right track!
>**If you are actively losing pounds, that defeats the purpose of this rule. If you are not already within the preferred range, I do not intend to wait for you to gain the necessary weight.**
**2.** Be single AND live by yourself; *private rooms with people still around do NOT count.*
>**If you are a busy man whose schedule is always filled, it will NOT work. For this sort of ongoing dynamic, your constant availability is required!**
**3.** You must own business/office attire as it is my preferred clothing for chubby submissive men--regardless of whether you normally wear such attire or not, it will become your day-to-day wear. *If you do not already own this attire, waiting for you to obtain it is not an option.*
>**I speak of suits, neckties, dress shirts, and dress footwear (among your other types of footwear, though I exclude sandals and flip-flops).**
**4.** Be clean-shaven (no facial hair). **Not willing to shave? Walk on by.**
**5.** Have a webcam with a microphone--most ideally, a smart device.
**Section II - ABOUT ME**
- I operate MY way, not according to mainstream practices and terminology.
- This is not just some "role" or "scene" and I am not here to "play".
- I am not the "rough" sort--meaning, no insults, humiliation, or degradation will be involved. However, do not mistake me: I am as assertive and adamant as all get-out! I do not suffer willful and disobedient submissive men too kindly (those who speak out of turn, for one). Yet, do not expect me to "punish" you just because you want me to.
- I am not here to provide you with what you think you want, but with *what I want you to have* and *what I think you need!*
- I am not a top seeking a bottom. I am not a daddy seeking a son. I do not seek an it, a boy or boi, a brat, a b-tch, a f-g, a pup, a pig, a slut, a sissy, or a femme.
- I am not looking for some horny man who thinks I am here to cater to their fantasies, fetishes, and kinks. I look for one who is naturally and purely obedient, and who needs nothing more than to cater to ME without hesitance and without judgment.
**Section III - WHAT I SEEK IN A CHUBBY SUBMISSIVE**
Along with matching the requirements of Section I, you must have realized and accepted your true submissive nature--which is to serve in any way, shape, and form to ensure MY happiness! Without question but with endurance, commitment, and pure servility. You should be one who puts others first and yourself out of the equation--SELFLESS and not SELFISH. Your need to provide service should be what drives you and your life--realizing that having the security to learn and serve daily is its own reward. No matter how big or small the tasks are, you should be a reliable, receptive, and loyal plus-sized man who dutifully answers "How high?" at the command to jump. Your need and will to provide service must be strong and unwavering, and powered by your heart and mind, not your penis--in other words, you realize that you are providing service for the sake of SERVICE and not sex. To approach me with your own selfish wants and desires, and with conditions for your obedience, will not gain my consideration. Rather, you should be a blank slate on which I put my own customizations and alterations.
To add, your genuine subservient nature must be inherent and unable to "turn off"--in other words, you must not identify as a "switch" or operate from a situational "sub-space".
**Section IV - WHAT TO EXPECT**
Through Instant Messaging, Email, and video chat, the right candidate will, with each passing day, have their routines, behavior, appearance...whatever else I prefer...shaped to my liking through my brand of Online Training & Control. It will cover and entail:
* Behavior & Etiquette
* Mindset Growth
* Mentorship
* Rules & Protocols
* Wardrobe Control (with a mandatory Suit & Tie Dress Code)
* Tasks (including those that are Videographic & Photographic)
* General Customization
* General Servitude (including over webcam)
**Section V - IN CONCLUSION**
*If you have just skimmed through this, go back up there and read this entire thing like I said. It is important if you wish to serve me.*
As I am choosy, not every candidate who approaches me will be considered, ESPECIALLY if they do not match and respect ALL of the above criteria (begging that I give you a chance will not cut it). I am in this for the long run so I must make my choice count!
PLEASE do not approach me if you are not serious about beginning service with me--that includes being wishy-washy or just curious to try. In short--let us not waste time. If you just talk the talk, but not walk the walk - we WILL NOT get along.
If you have any mental baggage or hang-ups that will hinder your service to me, perhaps this isn't for you.
Do you THINK you are ready to serve me or do you KNOW? If you KNOW, you should use your first message to explain why you have approached me and how you believe you are the one to serve me according to the above criteria; describe the business attire and footwear you own. Just get right to it--no small chit-chat.
If I do choose you, do as you're told, and we will get along fine. The only limits that should be in place are the limits that I will personally set.
Should you qualify, I look forward to utilizing your service!
I am an experienced online Dominant (or Remote Controller) who currently has a 24/7 position open for a plus-sized man with a strong will to serve, please, and learn--all while being right at my fingertips through exclusively online communication (yes, it is just as real as in-person). **Please note that due to the nature of a 24/7 dynamic, your time zone should not be too far ahead or behind the Central time zone. If it is morning for you when it is night for me, and vice versa, that will not work.**
Also realize that this is *not* going to focus on sex, kink or be a BDSM-centric dynamic. There will be no "toys" or chastity belts involved.
This will not be egalitarian (meaning we are not equals) so the only "Give and take" will be me giving the instructions and directives and you taking them. **This is about ME, after all!**
**Section I - IMPORTANT REQUIREMENTS** *These are NOT suggestions; I am unwilling to make exceptions for those who miss even just ONE of these.*
**1.** You must ALREADY be plump/heavyset starting at 240-250lbs and upward; *if you appear blatantly "fat" with a plump face and even double chins,* you are on the right track!
>**If you are actively losing pounds, that defeats the purpose of this rule. If you are not already within the preferred range, I do not intend to wait for you to gain the necessary weight.**
**2.** Be single AND live by yourself; *private rooms with people still around do NOT count.*
>**If you are a busy man whose schedule is always filled, it will NOT work. For this sort of ongoing dynamic, your constant availability is required!**
**3.** You must own business/office attire as it is my preferred clothing for chubby submissive men--regardless of whether you normally wear such attire or not, it will become your day-to-day wear. *If you do not already own this attire, waiting for you to obtain it is not an option.*
>**I speak of suits, neckties, dress shirts, and dress footwear (among your other types of footwear, though I exclude sandals and flip-flops).**
**4.** Be clean-shaven (no facial hair). **Not willing to shave? Walk on by.**
**5.** Have a webcam with a microphone--most ideally, a smart device.
**Section II - ABOUT ME**
- I operate MY way, not according to mainstream practices and terminology.
- This is not just some "role" or "scene" and I am not here to "play".
- I am not the "rough" sort--meaning, no insults, humiliation, or degradation will be involved. However, do not mistake me: I am as assertive and adamant as all get-out! I do not suffer willful and disobedient submissive men too kindly (those who speak out of turn, for one). Yet, do not expect me to "punish" you just because you want me to.
- I am not here to provide you with what you think you want, but with *what I want you to have* and *what I think you need!*
- I am not a top seeking a bottom. I am not a daddy seeking a son. I do not seek an it, a boy or boi, a brat, a b-tch, a f-g, a pup, a pig, a slut, a sissy, or a femme.
- I am not looking for some horny man who thinks I am here to cater to their fantasies, fetishes, and kinks. I look for one who is naturally and purely obedient, and who needs nothing more than to cater to ME without hesitance and without judgment.
**Section III - WHAT I SEEK IN A CHUBBY SUBMISSIVE**
Along with matching the requirements of Section I, you must have realized and accepted your true submissive nature--which is to serve in any way, shape, and form to ensure MY happiness! Without question but with endurance, commitment, and pure servility. You should be one who puts others first and yourself out of the equation--SELFLESS and not SELFISH. Your need to provide service should be what drives you and your life--realizing that having the security to learn and serve daily is its own reward. No matter how big or small the tasks are, you should be a reliable, receptive, and loyal plus-sized man who dutifully answers "How high?" at the command to jump. Your need and will to provide service must be strong and unwavering, and powered by your heart and mind, not your penis--in other words, you realize that you are providing service for the sake of SERVICE and not sex. To approach me with your own selfish wants and desires, and with conditions for your obedience, will not gain my consideration. Rather, you should be a blank slate on which I put my own customizations and alterations.
To add, your genuine subservient nature must be inherent and unable to "turn off"--in other words, you must not identify as a "switch" or operate from a situational "sub-space".
**Section IV - WHAT TO EXPECT**
Through Instant Messaging, Email, and video chat, the right candidate will, with each passing day, have their routines, behavior, appearance...whatever else I prefer...shaped to my liking through my brand of Online Training & Control. It will cover and entail:
* Behavior & Etiquette
* Mindset Growth
* Mentorship
* Rules & Protocols
* Wardrobe Control (with a mandatory Suit & Tie Dress Code)
* Tasks (including those that are Videographic & Photographic)
* General Customization
* General Servitude (including over webcam)
**Section V - IN CONCLUSION**
*If you have just skimmed through this, go back up there and read this entire thing like I said. It is important if you wish to serve me.*
As I am choosy, not every candidate who approaches me will be considered, ESPECIALLY if they do not match and respect ALL of the above criteria (begging that I give you a chance will not cut it). I am in this for the long run so I must make my choice count!
PLEASE do not approach me if you are not serious about beginning service with me--that includes being wishy-washy or just curious to try. In short--let us not waste time. If you just talk the talk, but not walk the walk - we WILL NOT get along.
If you have any mental baggage or hang-ups that will hinder your service to me, perhaps this isn't for you.
Do you THINK you are ready to serve me or do you KNOW? If you KNOW, you should use your first message to explain why you have approached me and how you believe you are the one to serve me according to the above criteria; describe the business attire and footwear you own. Just get right to it--no small chit-chat.
If I do choose you, do as you're told, and we will get along fine. The only limits that should be in place are the limits that I will personally set.
Should you qualify, I look forward to utilizing your service!
BDSM and me
So, my Nature and how I usually operate does not stem from BDSM. And the submissive man I seek would also not be operating from BDSM, but a pure subservient nature.
Limits
How about this? What I am not interested or keen on doing, that is what you won't be doing as well. Again, the less inhibitions you hold, the better you can serve in a selfless manner.
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Update date
Aug 9, 2024
Member since
Aug 17, 2018