IndependentLynx

Female

28

I’m keeping the different years up here because it’s important to note that it changes (maybe not drastically) and I think it’s good to keep that in mind when interacting with others, we have labels to find people we relate with but it’s not a fixed definition of the person.
== Results from bdsmtest.org == (June 18, 2022)
95% Masochist
93% Submissive
90% Pet
88% Rope bunny
83% Experimentalist
82% Degradee
78% Slave
68% Primal (Prey)
58% Exhibitionist
54% Switch
49% Non-monogamist
48% Rigger
38% Voyeur
37% Brat
28% Vanilla
24% Sadist
22% Primal (Hunter)
16% Dominant
9% Owner
7% Master/Mistress
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degrader
0% Brat tamer
0% Ageplayer

==Results from bdsmtest.org== (June 20 2020)
100% Rope bunny
91% Pet
87% Rigger
83% Masochist
77% Experimentalist
74% Primal (prey)
72% Submissive
68% Slave

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Rope bunny
98% Switch
94% Pet
78% Masochist
72% Slave
68% Degradee
63% Submissive
59% Primal (Prey)

Pet: Is property of their owner in daily life. Sexuality is not necessarily involved. This role often features some form of animal role play (puppy, kitten, etc.), although that is not a strict necessity.

Things I’d like if I found someone I trust: *petplay*(non sexual & sexual), knife play, whips, bondage, training, I’m open to try most things at least once to see if I’ll like them. Aftercare is key. My favourite thing is blowjobs & giving oral.

I won’t call you “daddy”. I won’t do anything illegal. Children and animals, and/or other non-consenting beings are hard limits. Faeces are a no for me (though I appreciate ox/Sam Huntingtons passion in “not another teen movie” towards the subject). I believe that public play requires consent from viewers, which adds limits to exhibitionists.

Mixing Sex and BDSM isn’t my thing. I’ve had some amazing Doms through my time so far in BDSM. I recently (2020/2021) had a nonsexual service, impact, and rope dynamic which was very fulfilling.

2022: a note to the above section- I don’t mix restraints/impact with sex (with the exception of one person who I’ve known for 11 years). I am currently indecisive, going between not wanting anything at all (sexual or bdsm related), to reminiscing good memories, to daydreaming about abduction/imprisonment. At the moment I’m emotionally hung up on an individual who has expressed a committed/exclusive relationship is not an option, but that doesn’t change how I currently feel & they are in my life socially and sexually. I had switch as my label for the past 7 years, but I think I’ll need to change it. I guess if you’ve read this far, I am bisexual and if I get along with a couple it is easy for me to imagine joining them (as in I am either friends or sexual partners with one of the individuals in the couple for a period of time before I am comfortable with the thought of all three of us in a sexual setting), but I don’t like being approached by couples looking for a third because then I just feel like a sexual conquests. I should just start a blog/writing on here so I’m not putting this all on my wall.

Jun 22, 2022

Aug 29, 2018