I'm here to connect with other people who are drawn to alternative lifestyles. While initial messages are good to establish contact and develop interest, online only interactions are NOT my jam. In-person discussions are my best way to get to know a person.
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr. Seuss
I am open-minded, a big fan of diversity, and I don’t avoid controversial topics. Community and the little things that make it function are important to me, whether I like or agree with them or not. Communities are diverse, with individuals within them having different goals, values and interrelationships. Being a part of one is an exchange - giving is just as important as receiving.
Be the change you want to see.
Evolving and constantly changing, just like real life, and learning always.
Consider me a Top. Rope, my bare hands and whippy things are my favorite tools. I choose to take responsibility for my own actions, decisions and the risks that go with them and I expect the same from the people I interact with. Hungry for knowledge, I like to challenge my brain and my body past my limits to find out what I can do, and usually surprise myself. I love to see other people reach the catharsis that is achieved when they push their own boundaries.