Thanks for stopping by. I'm a caring compassionate Dom that has been in the lifestyle for the past 6 years. I think I've been a Dom for much longer but it was labelled by a sub that I met on a trip. Over time she brought to the surface the truth of my personality and gave it a label.
Some of my subs have been physcally distant for much of our time but others became much closer and allowed for the experience that developed my skills.
I believe structure and respect for ones Dom is essential for the success of any DD/sub relationship. I thoroughly relish in the mental aspects of a relationship, dependancy, day to day control and interaction. In person, exploration of the limits of your servitude and submission both physically and mentally. As you might have gathered I have a passion for ropes, with a slightly sadistic side. Exploring the dark fantasies of ones mind brings honesty and release, resulting in a closer connection.
It's my belief that a Doms role is to support his sub and give her the structure and strict discipline she requires to blossom. Her place is respectfully beside him in public but is at his feet in private. The goal here is a LTR by starting slowly online. As that relationship develops it opens the door to a closer and more deep devotion.
"He certainly seemed to have all the qualities of a gentleman, but the interesting kind who knows exactly when to stop behaving like one." — Michael Dibdin, "Medusa"
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rigger
99% Sadist
97% Owner
97% Master/Mistress
97% Brat tamer
92% Dominant
80% Daddy/Mommy
67% Voyeur
67% Exhibitionist
59% Primal (Hunter)
58% Experimentalist
53% Non-monogamist
48% Degrader
46% Ageplayer
30% Switch
6% Vanilla
Not interested in scat, piss, blood, knives, or anything illegal. Not interested in drugs of any kind. (Dulls the senses.)
Met some great friends here The Cage. It's been a while so I updated my BDSM test. Hmmm. Interesting how we change 1.08.21
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Master/Mistress
100% Rigger
96% Voyeur
94% Dominant
94% Sadist
94% Brat tamer
83% Owner
80% Degrader
76% Ageplayer
73% Experimentalist