CurvyCattleya

switch female

27

Single

I'm a 22 year old (Plus size) female...so far I've discovered that I'm submissive and somewhat a middle at times...however recently I've discovered a bit of a "femdom"?? side..
I'm very affectionate (looooove cuddles) and need lots of attention...I'm very open minded...honest...loyal..understanding...generous.. always willing to help...and funny if I say so myself.

SUB/MIDDLE SIDE

Eventually, once I've gained a bit more confidence, I would like to find a Dom/Daddy/Lover/SO that I can build trust with and that can take control and discipline me in regard to taking better care of myself (health, nutrition, etc.) ...being more organized in terms of work, school projects and homework. And, with whom I can explore all my sexual fantasies. (Not too sure if I'm asking for too much)
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In exchange I give my trust (if its earned)..my body (if I feel I can trust you with it)..my obedience...complete openness(although I might need a bit of coercing - I am a bit shy though I don't show it much)..I'll do my best to please my Dom..(I'm not sure what else I could offer..or want).
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"FEMDOM"?? SIDE

Recently I've discovered that the thought of having someone serve me with the only purpose of wanting to please me(sexually) is very appealing.
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==Results from bdsmtest.org==
96% Switch
75% Boy/Girl
71% Rigger
64% Degradee
60% Submissive
60% Dominant
59% Degrader
56% Rope bunny
56% Masochist
52% Ageplayer
51% Slave
49% Experimentalist
49% Brat tamer
49% Brat
46% Non-monogamist
45% Voyeur
43% Daddy/Mommy
37% Exhibitionist
33% Primal (Prey)
25% Vanilla
23% Master/Mistress
11% Primal (Hunter)
5% Owner
2% Pet
1% Sadist

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I'm very open to trying **ALMOST** anything once to see if i like it.As long as it's with someone I know I can trust, that has my best interest at heart. I know what I'm curious about: Bondage, Anal, DDlg, Polyandry (MfM) and a lot of other things...
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I have a bit of trust issues. Every time I've given a chance to a guy, they just screw with me...but all I want is to be with someone that cares about me, someone I can give my all to.
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I love the thought of giving someone else control and them using that control to help you better yourself...I love the trust that is need in BDSM for the relationship to work....the honesty..the openness...that someone knows all of your deepest darkest fantasies..your deepest darkest secrets..and doesn't judge you for them.
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"I am the type of Dom that is looking to take care of you. I’m a caregiver at heart, and I am going to want you to be the best you that you can be."

When I think of my Ideal Dom, this is a bit of what I imagine...I always felt like I needed a firm hand to guide me...but never asked for it because I thought/still think that I should be able to do things on my own (be independent)...I want to be able to have that self discipline...but I always just end up digging my self into a hole..
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I might have a few minor things that are little like...or not...Playing dress up/character creator games online (the pic in my profile)...eating my food in particular order(the thing I like the least to those I like the best)...and maybe other things...I'm starting to think i identify more with being a middle..

No bodily waste (piss, poop, vomit, blood, etc.)
No canning
No knives/needles
No rapeplay
No breathe play
No underage
Nothing illegal
Probably more things...not sure what yet..

Oct 29, 2019

Sep 30, 2018