I am a 60 year old retired attorney disabled by a severe auto accident. Raised in a dysfunctional family and then spending years in therapy, I have several physical and emotional disabilities that are well in hand. The oldest child of 6, with a living father and deceased mother, family has always been important to me. Always an overachiever, I did well in school, University and Law School. A Bachelor of Social Work led to 5 years of practice as a Social Worker followed by Law School and many satisifying years as an attorney.
Despite the rocky road I have lived, I am a positive, humor filled person who enjoys the computer, literature, politics, exercise as tolerated, knitting and chatting in general. I look forward to getting to know the people here and participating.
I began in BDSM at the age of 35 when a man that I was swinging with introduced me to the lifestyle and became my first Dom. He was older than me and I lived in his home with his sub wife whom I became very good friends with. I did much reading and studying as I entered the life with him. He gently pushed my many walls from an abusive childhood and I came to love the flogger and control under his hand. When I became physically disabled I had to leave the home and our relationship went to the wide world of the internet, and I was allowed to experiment. Upon his death I grieved him fiercely, but moved on to several other owners. At this time i am unowned.
This requires a discussion, however I can go over the main limits. My hard limits are scat, bestiality, permanent disfigurement, cutting, caging. Any of these in a heavy extreme manner: humiliation, punishment, torture, sadism.
I have been away for a time due to health issues regarding my kidneys. ending in dialysis. I am now trying ro SJUAT,