Bondage and I have had a... kinda weird relationship. I'm open minded, but not particularly experienced with the more heavy-handed aspects of the lifestyle that a lot of people enjoy. For me, it's about a relationship, a consensual give and take of power that satisfies the needs of both parties, and brings them closer together. Ultimately, that's what bondage is to me: a way to get closer to someone special to me.
Sappy? Maybe. But accurate for me.
I have contracted and collared a beautiful, intelligent, sweet woman, who is my one and only sub. I'm not interested in having anyone else enter our dynamic.
Whoever keeps sending me "hey bby wanna try findom ;)", please cease and desist.