Nyxian565​{perfectmis}

dom male

29

In a monogamous relationship

I'm a complicated guy but I'm loyal to a fault to the people I come to care about. I have a strong voyeur side and I'll never turn down seeing a beautiful woman in a less than lady like situation. That being said I'm in a dedicated relationship with my sub and girlfriend, perfectmistake. While I consider myself poly and I am interested in play partners to help me explore that aspect, I am not seeking any additional full time subs at this time. If any would like to become closer to me I expect them to go through her and ask her permission to share me. I expect people to focus on friendship first and kink/fun second. I believe communication and trust are the most important aspects of any relationship or dynamic. I consider my dom type to be a gentleman, caretaker dom. I like naughty/degrading language in scene but only if the sub is comfortable with it. I have a primal predator side that comes out on rare occasions. I don't judge and I don't like people who judge. I'm not much of a rigger. I definitely prefer cuddling 90% of the time. I used to post my bdsm.org test results but I find they change often and depend on who I play with. I'm adaptive so I just sort of do what my partner enjoys. I tried going switch and it isn't for me. I don't mind mentoring but I'm always learning something new myself. My advice to anyone is just explore and have the courage to be yourself. Immerse yourself in learning and be safe.

Learned a ton already. I have a lot of experience, but that doesn't mean I don't like to learn and explore and try new things. I have a caution and communication first approach. I prefer given consent rather than take consent. I'm patient and wait for subs to be comfortable enough to give permission rather than forcably take what I want. If you think domination is all about swinging your ego around then we probably won't get along well. I also believe that there is more than one right way to learn this life and that one approach doesn't suit all.

Fake people and Fake connections. Otherwise I'm flexible.

Jul 17, 2020

Oct 11, 2018