I'm a DaddyDom living in Southern New Jersey. So, to answer a commonly asked question - What am I looking for? You should first and foremost know what you want to be out of life. Note: I am not looking to change anyone! I tried changing someone before and it never works because inherently people deep down inside are who they are meant to be. I want a woman that is comfortable with her sexuality and calling in life. She knows deep down who she is as a person, a lover, and a friend.
What can you expect from me? I'm a bit of a loner, fancy my own company sometimes a bit too much for my liking and don't suffer fools gladly. I prefer to 'live deep and suck all the marrow out of life' and to 'march to the beat of a different drum' to borrow a well-turned phrase or two from Thoreau. Being dominant isn't about capriciously ordering someone around. Intrinsically, it's about realizing your mate's submissive potential and growing together in thought and deed. Respect is a two way street and rules established should always be honored. I'm more vanilla in public preferring to my dominant side to come alive in the bedroom so I wouldn't intentionally humiliate someone in public and wouldn't tolerate it from others. I own my house and am fiscally responsible with money. I live within my means and think this is a good way to live life.
Now that I've told you a little bit about myself, now its your turn. Its time to summon up some of that courage I know you have and write me something that will inspire me to want to learn more about you. I have experience helping subjects like yourself explore and fulfill various fantasies, dreams, desires and needs. I have dealt with the novice as well as the experienced and will take you to places you always wanted to go.
I'm more into the mental aspects of dominant/submissive play, although I've enjoyed employing a firm hand when the situation called for it, LOL. I always respect a woman's limits although I'd prefer someone willing to explore her limits with me and push beyond them.