I've been in the lifestyle for awhile now and I have many interests. I've gotten numerous messages from guys who seem only interested in a quick one night session. Not a problem that, if that is truly what they want, but that's not my interest. I'm looking for long-term relationships with intelligent people, who can have a conversation other than just BDSM.
I think I'm pretty typical with BDSM and what I am into. I like to be tied up, blindfolded, flogged, spanked, rough sex, etc. I'm straight and interested in men, I'm not bisexual, but I have to admit I'm a little bi-curious and have been intimate with women in threesome settings. I enjoy a power exchange with a dominant who is experienced, intelligent, strict, nurturing, empowering and who is a good mentor to build up a submissive.
I don't have any tattoos or piercings, and plan to stay that way. Though I don't have tattoos, I like it when a guy has a few (prison tats excluded ;) I'm not into drugs at all, never touched them, never will. Not into needles, as I can barely tolerate a flu shot. You're not going to pee or shit on me, gross and messy. I won't drink pee either, I expect that you are house broken. No branding, I get enough burn marks when I bake. No biting, no permanent marks.
I have been quite active on other Lifestyle sites and have met a lot of great people. I don't like to text forever and prefer in-person meetings in public location. I'm not interested in an online only relationship. I'm in Fairfax Virginia (Washington DC area) and want to meet people in the local area.
I get messages and requests from business men traveling to DC for a night and want to get together. I don't offer drive-thru services.
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