Currently just here to learn and with some luck, maybe make some friends and meet like-minded people. I am totally new to the community and lifestyle and probably quite naive. I have not really indulged any of my kinks beyond writing/fantasizing up until now. Outside of kink, I make videos on YouTube and enjoy reading and writing, among a wide variety of interests.
I guess I fit the dom role more than anything since the scenarios I fantasize about normally involve some kind of objectification, like tying or chaining someone up, forcing them to wear sexual clothing. I am also a bit of a sadist. With more involvement in the community, I expect I will experiment and discover myself more and how I identify and that's the fun of the journey.
As much as I would like to experiment, there are a few things that turn me off, like anything to do with anal I just find kind of gross and is probably a hard limit. I will probably add to this in future.
Most of the other extreme stuff like scat, blood, animals, whatever is also a no no.