I’m a lighting designer for live performance. It’s amazing how storytelling and hardware skills cross over between the job and the bedroom.
My linked blog is pretty eclectic. I’ve written some about bdsm and sexuality, but there’a also politics, art, sprituality, and whatever else I’m thinking on there.
I'm a dom who enjoys to occasionally bottom—it's fun to be thrown around from time to time, but, for the most part, I enjoy making my partner the center of attention. Most important part of being a dom: seeing one's submissive and letting them know they are seen. Then fulfilling their delightful fantasies of degradation and pain.
I'm up in the Berkshires, but I come down to NYC pretty regularly. The city will always be home though. Also, my preferred relationship style is polyamorous. I'm a bit greedy and fantasize about having a triad with a man and a woman both wearing a collar for me. But I'm certainly not committed to only that style of a relationship.
Oh, and for those who like clothespins, visual artists have urged me to make prints of my work.