sub female

Jacksonville, Florida, United States
Premium, Online
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About me


A true submissive at heart. 
This is something that I have known for a long time. About me even though I'm a submissive through and through life has made me a strong independent woman. Life has knocked me down but I get back up stronger. I'm a fighter and I pull myself up by the boot straps. Even if reality shows me something I keep fighting if I truly want it. I'm an intelligent woman who has schooling and learning from the school of hard knocks. Yet I'm here stronger and smarter. Me even though people see me as a BBW inside I'm a little girl wanting to release a big girl submissive. I'm honest transparent and a good friend. Don't like to cause pain to others nor do I deceive. I'm a down to earth free spirited woman. 
BDSM and me
I  have have some physical and online experience, but feel like there is so much more to learn. I'm thoroughly committed to this lifestyle. The Dom I choose will know that he is not only my Sir but my protector and main concern. 

I have a high tolerance for pain. Yet I don't want pain all the time. The Dom for me has to respect my safe word and watch closely for safety reasons. There must be aftercare no matter online or real.

The Dom I choose must respect me as I will him. He must be able to have an intelligent conversation and be truthful and honest. Communication and not ignoring is extremely important. Also, he must be compassionaite yet stern when he needs to be. Patient and understanding. 

Role-playing is okay but occasionally.  I prefer directions and being spoken too. I love the pet names very much.  I'm a submissive not a slave. 
Hard limits are no cages, hoods (I'm claustrophobic), cutting, gun play, blood or facial slapping and no real hard core. Scat, golden showers, children, family or animals.  Pushy before agreeing to a dynamic or settling into a friendship. 

Soft limits will be discussed in more  detail with my potential Dom.  But, some of my soft limits include spanking, nipple play, hot wax, rope, blindfold, and anal. Anything is negotiable with the Dom I choose. 
What's new
I find this journey has me embarking in a way which gives me meaning and purpose. It's like flying and I don't have wings. It's like soaring amongst the clouds and not afraid to fall.

It's not been an easy journey by any means. I've learned more about me than I thought I would. I found me in the lifestyle. I've grown by leaps and bounds. Mountains I thought were to steep I've been conquering. It's truly amazing. 
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Wednesday, June 12, 2019
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