kesou​{Collared}

sub male

34

In a monogamous relationship

I'm a 28 year old male sub living in the midwest US at the moment. I've travelled around the country quite a bit, and love to experience new things immensely. I love art, music, philosophy, language, books... Stimulating things! I also love to have a nice conversation. I think everyone has something to teach someone else.

I'm a submissive to a heavy extent, and prefer a female as my domme. Although I am very flexible, it is ultimately decided by our mental connection.

A little background is in order, I suppose. I think I first realized I was a sub in my freshman year of H.S. I was spending a lot of time in Yahoo and AOL chatrooms just doing some friendly, platonic fantasy roleplaying. A RL friend of mine started a private session and he was very dominant from the start; and I finally felt like I knew where I belonged.

Since then I have had two mistresses, but tbh my experiences were lackluster at best. Sidenote: I believe it to be very unfair to a potential partner to advertise yourself as a switch and then only dom when the planets align. I am able to switch, but I really don't think it would be honest of me to label myself as such. I really would need to be in the ideal mindset and have some sort of advanced notice.

I have to say, one of the things I find the most erotic is pleasing my partner. I love hearing them moan in pleasure, gasp, whine... I don't know but I need it. If my partner reaches orgasm but I don't get the opportunity to, that's perfectly fine with me. In fact, I rather enjoy being denied an orgasm ,)

Uh, I suppose it would make sense to delve into my kinks a little bit. Full disclosure? It would be easier for me to list what I *don't* like, but I will mention a few of my main ones.

-Pet/slave play
-Pegging
-Giving oral (holy shit, seriously. If I could get all my nourishment that way, I'd live down there)
-Worship in every sense of the word. I want a Goddess, an owner, a Mistress. One that demands my utmost attention and devotion.
-Feet (again, this one is a contender for my number one fetish. I truly believe I belong underfoot.)
-I love to be commanded to worship/service/pleasure my Mistress and be completely ignored the whole time
-Objectification
-Humilation
-I long to be collared. The constant physical reminder is comforting, plus I love the looks it gets
-Piggybacking off that, public worship. This is more of a fantasy for me, since I have yet to find anyone willing to participate in it with me.

I could really just keep listing off things, so it would probably be better for someone to just bring something up to me if they're trying to find out if I'm willing. In 99.99% of situations I definitely am, I consider myself very adventurous.

Scat , urine, children, animals... those are an immediate and hard no. Otherwise, let's tall!

Feb 3, 2019

Jan 21, 2019