sub female

California, United States
Relationship status
About me
Formerly ClosetSub-
It feels like I'm constantly updating my profile, but I think it's because I'm continuously growing.

I'm an avid reader. I thrive on intellectual conversations. I love learning about new things. I enjoy making connections with people. I'm very open and always honest no matter what. I'm pretty much an open book except about my personal life.

I've been on a journey with life changes. They are all positive and make me feel good about myself and the choices I've made.

I enjoy pleasing by nature. I'm not confrontational, but I still will speak my mind when it is important. I value other's opinions and respect that we are all individuals with things going on in our lives. We have good days and bad days and it's important to work through those together.

I'm a great person and I'd love to meet other great people. I'm a morning person that will probably drive you crazy, but you'll love it!
BDSM and me
I am curious about the concept of someone else taking control. Professionally I always take the lead but letting that go in the bedroom turns me on. The idea of a Dominate leading me, helping my mind bend to His will, just letting go.....

I need the connection of minds first. I'm very kinky, but without the mental stimulation, I won't fully engage.

My desire is to please. I want to find a Dom that is stronger than my alpha personality. When she recognizes Him, she bows, "Yes Sir, Yes Master".
I love and need the attention of my Sir. I want to be His everything and vice versa. Ideally I want to find someone in real life. To feel his touch and see his smile. To feel him petting my head as I kneel by his feet. The love that I see in his eyes when I'm his good girl and even the intensity in his eyes if I need discipline.

I'm very open to trying new things, since my experience is very limited. I would prefer a Dom with years of experience instead of someone in training.

Turn on- Spanking, blindfolding, rope bondage, other restraints, toys, nipple play, sensation play, orgasm control, just to name a few.

If you are in a current relationship,  please don't contact me unless for friendly chat. I want to be a first priority in your life, not someone  who has to be watching in the background begging for your time.
Because of being new to this lifestyle, I'm not yet sure about my limits.  I will update with time.

Anything illegal
Body fluids (blood, urine, scat, etc.)
Body damage
What's new
I've recently discovered an amazing blog (listed below) that has helped me better understand who I am as a sub. The type of Dom my personality reaches to find.
Update date
Saturday, March 9, 2019
Member since
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
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