sub female

California, United States
Relationship status
In a monogamous relationship
About me

I HAVE MY DOM, NOT LOOKING. Friendships only please.

I think the one thing that anyone who knows me can attest to is that I’m all about being open and honest to a fault. I think I annoy most with the preaching, but in any friendship or relationship, it is crucial.

I’ve taken myself on a learning journey this year and have discovered many new things about myself. Most of those I share freely.

I’m very open minded and never judge another for having a difference of opinion. Those differences are what make us unique, we need to value them.

I'm a great person and I'd love to meet other great people. I'm a morning person that will probably drive you crazy, but you'll love it!

In my links #2 describes me to a T. 
BDSM and me

Trust, honesty and open communication is key here. I value each one beyond what words can describe.

My self discovery this year has led to many revelations about myself. I once thought I was complex sub that couldn’t find her way. Now I know that was never the case.

I’ve discovered that there are many individual pieces that come together to make me who I am today.

Primarily, I am submissive. I love to please my Sir more than anything else. Everytime I get his “Ehem”, it makes me think twice about what I have said. It drives me to be the best I can be.

I also have Domme and Mistress desires. I embrace them both when either needs attention. I believe my Alpha personality drives the strength behind these and it feels amazing! I am very grateful that my Sir is creative within our own relationship to satisfy these desires while keeping control.

I am extremely open minded and adventurous, but limits are discussed between my Sir and myself.
I am his and he owns my limits.
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Sir...this is my love letter to the world about how great life can be when you finally let go and be. Our happy story to share hope with others on reaching for the unexpected.❤


I’m always the one to think things through more than I need to. I try to make decisions based on knowledge that sometimes isn’t really there. I look at the choices from every direction to make sure I won’t get blindsided. Looking over every option available until I just confuse myself.


I think, no I know, that I do these things in my relationships. Once a decision is made, I give it my all and because of this, I take my time to make said decisions so that everyone involved has the best opportunity to be happy.


My Sir and I met just over a month ago. To say we connected, really is an understatement. Today, I can admit that we became two halves of a whole. It took me a bit to realize that it had happened. I see changes in myself that are very surprising, but in a positive way. I’m following without question, well...not too many questions, I’m thoughtful of my words and I have become much more settled. Not so much trying to figure things out or change the world. To see what all of this really looked like and how that affected our lives. To fully accept that took me longer than what I want to admit. Until very recently (days), I was still holding back, afraid to give that last little bit of myself. In a sense, protecting us both; although I can’t tell you what from.


Being able to let this last reservation go has been a revelation for me. To let myself be able to feel the true feelings that exist is like finally taking a deep breath. Fully letting myself submit completely. The depth of how easily without question I submit to Him is beyond what I can even try to understand. My new mantra is that sometimes there are no answers to questions; you just have to accept.


This all started as a journey to build a friendship and heal a friend. Be the person who I love to be and help others find their safe and happy place. I’ve realized that in the end, it is both of us who needed healing. The lost Closet Sub learning how to be SoaringFree has in actuality found her new adventure with her Sir; and what an adventure it will be.❤❤

Older- I've recently discovered an amazing blog (listed below) that has helped me better understand who I am as a sub. The type of Dom my personality reaches to find.
Update date
Saturday, May 18, 2019
Member since
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
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