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polaris41dom male
Tulsa, Oklahoma, United States
polaris41
Age
46
Relationship status
Single
About me
My everyday life is fairly open and fun. I love cracking jokes, music, and being outdoors. I live along the river here in the city and love taking walks with someone else or with music playing through my headphones. I like reading for pleasure and love shopping for books even more than reading them. I also love cooking, hiking, and the outdoors. But when it's not nice out, I'm quite happy to binge watch something or play games. I do consider connecting on an everyday level absolutely essential for a D/s relationship to work. If there's no connection outside of the bedroom and other play, then it's just not satisfying at all.
As for the lifestyle, I've long been bored with vanilla relationships. My aim is to enter into a D/s relationship with a woman either around my age or younger. I'm not necessarily interested in babysitting anyone. I want to be with someone with goals and help them reach those goals. Still, my ideal relationship will involve some exchange of power, either strictly in the bedroom, in a 24/7 dynamic, or somewhere in between. I feel I have a lot to offer and will expect much out of someone who will be my sub. Take a look at my checklists and if you're interested, feel free to drop a line. Questions are welcome. I hope to hear back from you soon.
As for the lifestyle, I've long been bored with vanilla relationships. My aim is to enter into a D/s relationship with a woman either around my age or younger. I'm not necessarily interested in babysitting anyone. I want to be with someone with goals and help them reach those goals. Still, my ideal relationship will involve some exchange of power, either strictly in the bedroom, in a 24/7 dynamic, or somewhere in between. I feel I have a lot to offer and will expect much out of someone who will be my sub. Take a look at my checklists and if you're interested, feel free to drop a line. Questions are welcome. I hope to hear back from you soon.
BDSM and me
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
95% Dominant
94% Daddy/Mommy
89% Owner
87% Master/Mistress
85% Sadist
84% Rigger
81% Brat tamer
65% Experimentalist
63% Exhibitionist
59% Primal (Hunter)
54% Switch
47% Non-monogamist
35% Degrader
33% Vanilla
31% Voyeur
20% Submissive
17% Boy/Girl
17% Ageplayer
15% Rope bunny
14% Masochist
13% Pet
11% Primal (Prey)
10% Brat
3% Degradee
0% Slave
95% Dominant
94% Daddy/Mommy
89% Owner
87% Master/Mistress
85% Sadist
84% Rigger
81% Brat tamer
65% Experimentalist
63% Exhibitionist
59% Primal (Hunter)
54% Switch
47% Non-monogamist
35% Degrader
33% Vanilla
31% Voyeur
20% Submissive
17% Boy/Girl
17% Ageplayer
15% Rope bunny
14% Masochist
13% Pet
11% Primal (Prey)
10% Brat
3% Degradee
0% Slave
Limits
The obvious: No bodliy waste, no blood. No underage or animals.
The less than obvious: I'm not looking for an online-only or long-distance dynamic. I understand getting to know someone can happen at a distance, and I do appreciate a good conversation with anyone. Feel free to reach out if you wanna chat. But I don't get enough out of an online-only or long-distance dynamic to hold my interest. Good luck out there!
The less than obvious: I'm not looking for an online-only or long-distance dynamic. I understand getting to know someone can happen at a distance, and I do appreciate a good conversation with anyone. Feel free to reach out if you wanna chat. But I don't get enough out of an online-only or long-distance dynamic to hold my interest. Good luck out there!
Update date
Nov 8, 2023
Member since
Feb 11, 2019
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