polaris41
dom male

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Tulsa, Oklahoma, United States
Age
47
Relationship status
Single
About me
Gentle Dom that likes to be rough at the right times. Striving always to be the hottest dad on the block. I like cooking for others, great shows and movies, coffee, meditation, conversations both silly and deep, games, trying new places to eat, podcasts, and more.

Pros:
Good to very good cook
Sober
Adequate but willing dancer
Done having kids ✂️ ✂️
Believes in things like Black Lives Matter, Trans Rights are human rights, science is real, etc.
Anti-cop but pro-handcuff

Cons:
Snoring

As for the lifestyle, I've long been bored with vanilla relationships. My aim is to enter into a D/s relationship with a woman either around my age or younger. I definitely want to be with someone with goals and help them reach those goals. Still, my ideal relationship will involve some exchange of power, either strictly in the bedroom, in a 24/7 dynamic, or somewhere in between. I feel I have a lot to offer and will expect much out of someone who will be my sub. Take a look at my checklists and if you're interested, feel free to drop a line. Questions are welcome. I hope to hear from you soon.
BDSM and me
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
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94% Daddy/Mommy
89% Owner
87% Master/Mistress
85% Sadist
84% Rigger
81% Brat tamer
65% Experimentalist
63% Exhibitionist
59% Primal (Hunter)
54% Switch
47% Non-monogamist
35% Degrader
33% Vanilla
31% Voyeur
20% Submissive
17% Boy/Girl
17% Ageplayer
15% Rope bunny
14% Masochist
13% Pet
11% Primal (Prey)
10% Brat
3% Degradee
0% Slave
Limits
The obvious: No bodliy waste, no blood. No underage or animals.
Member since
Feb 11, 2019
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