badKltty

sub trans woman

52

I'm smart, capable, and generally a good woman. I would like to find a man that I can look up too, to respect. To that man, I might offer my submission. I have recently learned that I enjoy a little impact play. I also have come to believe that having a Dom/Master might be good for me.

I'm a bisexual, pre-op transsexual, DDF, HWP. If you are a man I'd prefer you to be at least 6' tall, but let's not call it a deal breaker. Women I'm less picky about, but I like tall women, too. Let's say no one younger than 45. Men, women and couples are all ok.

Favorite quote:
"It is only when you make me suffer that I feel safe and secure. You should never have agreed to be a god for me if you were afraid to assume the duties of a god, and we all know that they are not as tender as all that. You have already seen me cry. Now you must learn to relish my tears."

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat
100% Rope bunny
99% Degradee
99% Submissive
78% Slave
76% Primal (Prey)
76% Experimentalist
75% Non-monogamist
70% Masochist
59% Voyeur

I don't know. I'm relatively vanilla in practice. Although, I have a fantasy life that is pretty unhealthy? healthy?

UPDATED July 30, 2024

Please read until the end. I apologize for the length, but I am a lot of things.

I'm a mother, a grandmother, a daughter, a sister. I'm a friend. I'm grounded and easy going most of the time. I try to pick my battles, and when I do dig my heels in I'm almost unmovable. I have occasional moments when I'm a ditz, although I'm highly intelligent.

Family and friends are very important to me. I'm not quick to add people into my world, but there are very few limits to what I am willing to do for people who are. I have been blessed with many people in my life who love me. I don't really believe that I ever stop loving someone I've loved before. The nature of that love may change, particularly in romantic love. They might not even deserve it. But was it really love if it can disappear entirely? I find that hard to believe.

I've lived in many places and have been friends with people from many walks of life. I am easy to talk with and am generally well liked. I'm from Washington State and consider that home, however I'm more often in Oklahoma where my children and grandchildren live. I don't believe they are quite ready for me to move back home on a more permanent basis, but the call to go home is getting louder in my ears.

I dislike working out, finding it very difficult to motivate myself to run in place, but I will play sports until I pass out from exhaustion. My favorites are softball and basketball. I can golf a little and ski. Once upon a time I could even play a little tennis and soccer. I doubt I'm in good enough shape to get away with that, right now.

I have done a lot of things and wish I had time to do all of the things, but I value my time at home too. I enjoy cooking for people, though I wouldn't say I'm a great cook. I'm the "ok-est" cook ever.

Currently, I am hoping to find a friend or two that I enjoy talking to. I might even be ready to start dating, again. I had a very serious relationship end earlier this year, but I'm healing. I am ready to find someone that deserves me.

This last part I left until last because it is the least important thing about me. However for you the reader, it could be the most important part.

I am a trans woman.

I am not a fetish. I'm not easy. I don't need validation from others about who I am. I'm just a woman trying to make my way through life as best I can. I'm a woman trying to be a better person today than I was yesterday. A better mother. A better sister. A better girlfriend and hopefully someday a better wife.

I am an open book and as such am willing to talk to people about it, even if it's just curiosity. There are a lot of people out there right now who aren't trans and have no idea what it's like to be trans, making claims about trans people that they are in no way qualified to make. If you want to get information straight from a source, I am happy to help.

Thank you for taking the time to read all of that. Again, I apologize for the length, but I hope you found it valuable.

Aug 22, 2024

Mar 4, 2019