I was brought up in nyc's village and always hung out with older free spirted beatknicks, hippies etc., just the way it was and is today. I learned my lessions well and have taught them and still do today.
I am into being a dom in my own soulful way. I do believe in limits but this is me. All are different and i would hope so. Everyone, i hope should be open to total extremes where the pain and pleasure cross X for at that moment the pleasure is the same.
Folks get there (to me and for others i believe) but it is just the amount of energy of which side one is able to grasp.
They are unknown until......
Again, new has not arrived yet....