YourSweetChelle

sub female

45

Single

I'm a 43 year old single girl from the south suburbs of Chicago. I've been single for almost 2 1/2 years. I'm not rushing to find someone, I prefer to take my time getting to know someone. Although my life can be hectic, it's pretty lonely sometimes, and very stressful without having a strong man to lean on and to help me keep going.
I'm submissive by nature, but I am not a pushover. I'm always respectful unless I am disrespected first. Then I can definitely become feisty lol.
I don't have any children and have never been married.
If you are married, whether it's happily or unhappily married, please pass me by. I am also not interested in a poly relationship. I don't want to share or be shared.

I'm a natural submissive, so for me, it's definitely much more than sexual. I have had a real life D/s relationship, and I'm feeling lost and overwhelmed without a strong Dom. I'm not rushing into a relationship just because of how I'm feeling. There definitely has to be chemistry. Online and texting/phone is fine for a while. But if you're looking to meet, I'm not interested in just a play date.
I know there is so much out there that I have yet to experience. So ideally, I would love to find the Dom that is my perfect fit. Kneeling before him, knowing that's where I belong. And holding his hand in public, knowing he's always going to care for me, keep me safe, and protect me. I've also recently talked to several Daddy's. I never really gave that dynamic a chance, but I'm definitely open to it after speaking to them.

I don't have a complete list, as there are still lots of things i don't know about. I'm open to trying new things, however anything illegal, anything that is harmful to me, blood, animals, are all limits. (these aren't the only ones, but more will come up in conversation)
Married men are also offlimits to me.

I just took the bdsm test. I'm not sure I agree with all of the results, but here they are.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Submissive
94% Slave
78% Rope bunny
63% Boy/Girl
55% Masochist
50% Experimentalist
44% Pet
43% Vanilla
36% Brat
24% Degradee
21% Ageplayer
15% Primal (Prey)
3% Exhibitionist
3% Voyeur
0% Non-monogamist
0% Switch

Oct 21, 2021

Mar 14, 2019