Texas, United States
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About me
Just an old disabled and housebound widower finding ways to fill time before I'm ash and dust.
BDSM and me
I was Master/Dom/Sir/Daddy/Husband/Lover/Best Friend to a wonderful strong woman for twenty-five years before waking to find she had left behind the no longer needed chrysalis of her mortal shell in October of 2017. Since then (as well as before), I've been honored to share time with some truly wonderful submissive women as... something. Most often, a friend and confidante. And if I've learned anything about BDSM, it's thinking I know and fully understand anything is just a way to go wrong with supreme confidence.
Lies. Lies are an insult. Not only to my intelligence, that I could ever figure it out, but to me as a person. I don't need to know all your secrets. But, what you do choose to share had best be the truth if you expect me to listen to anything else you ever say.

Shit and puke. Nope. Sorry. If that's your bag, that's fine. But, if I see it, I'm gonna toss up not only my cookies, but my toenails.

Coming at me with a phallus, whether real or fake, is a good way to loose it. I've got no problem if you like 'em. But, I have my own issues from my past that make this (and my ass) a no-fly zone.

I don't do shibari, bladework, electro-stimulus, or many of the other less safe practices anymore since, due to my infirmities, I don't trust myself to keep you safe. Power to you if you are into it. But, I am a firm believer in Safe, Sane, and Consensual.

Consent is not just a big deal, it is the only deal. If either of us doesn't consent, there ain't nothin' gonna happen.
What's new
Nothing under the sun.

Well, other than a friend pointing me at "The Cage."

Just looking around, discovering what is here. For now.
Update date
Thursday, March 28, 2019
Member since
Friday, March 15, 2019
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