Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate,
Our greatest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
Well thats the difficult part. I Never know how to describe myself
So i asked one of my subs to describe me
here it goes :-
" You are a gentle and Caring dom
You're a really kind human being
Your heart dominates and that's what makes you so special
You try to be all dom
But i also see a naughty boy
Who loves to act crazy and kiddish
You are actually full of love and you wanna go give it to people
Whoever is your sub , you take them seriously
Love them with all your heart and genuinely care for them
You are actually a very patient guy "
My vanilla self :
A football fanatic
Fifa lover
Love watching movies and tv shows
Music is the food for my soul
More of a lake person
Rather than a club
Ps : we parted ways
She Wanted someone more practical :p
My kik id is mayankgunner
BDSM for me is more of a lifestyle than just something that you use to spice up your sex life . I am a dom by nature but still pretty naive at that and learning about the lifestyle . I am here for nice conversations about the lifestyle.
You could help me or i could help you.
Lets end each other's curiosities.
Their is fine line between dominance and abuse. The sad part is many fail to understand that.
A sub is not someone for you to use
She is someone you adore and take full responsibility of.
You take care of her.
She does not submit cause she is weak ,broken or disturbed she does cause she is strong enough to show who she truly is.
By making someone a sub you give her freedom to let go not bound her in chains .
If you can't do that you shouldn't be a dom
Most important thing in a D/S relationship - trust
My BDSM test results == Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Owner
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Master/Mistress
100% Daddy/Mommy
98% Dominant
92% Degrader
90% Ageplayer
70% Experimentalist
66% Non-monogamist
64% Primal (Hunter)
60% Exhibitionist
57% Voyeur
48% Switch
43% Vanilla
I haven't had a lot of experience tbh
So the things that scare me are basically my limits
Blood, scat ,breath play and permanent marks
Rest i would like to explore
And see what i like
In what context
Do you mean on Netflix?